My husband got mad at me because I refused not to make love with him tonight

Philippines
May 6, 2009 11:59am CST
I feel so bad now because my husband got mad at me because I refused not to make love with him tonight. I have my reasons, I'm tired and not in a mood to do it. But he didn't accept my reasons. He told me that he will never make love to me anymore. Is it really true? I cried...I don't know what to do! He never understand me. Help...what should I do?
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@RedDiary (138)
• United States
7 May 09
he is lying =) i know he will make love to you still. he just said that because he was really looking forward for you both to have a time together with that. wish you the best. and just make it up to him ;)
• Philippines
7 May 09
thanks for responding this discussion. Sure, I'll make it up to him, I'll make it doubled?lols. Have a nice day!
@RedDiary (138)
• United States
9 May 09
hahehi nice one =) enjoy.. and may god bless you, always ;)
@velentina (892)
• Mauritius
13 May 09
His male ego is hurt when you refused him. He will forget everything when he will calm down and patch up with you. Remember not to refuse him next time as these beautiful moments re important for your relationship to stand up on a good ground. So if you have to win your husband and save your marriage keep your bad mood far from affecting your relationship with your husband. To do so you can inspire and expire 10 times very deeply all your anguish will vanish you will be able to make love or anything you want. Also try meditation techniques. Good luck.
• Philippines
13 May 09
Hi!Thanks for responding this discussion. Suggestions taken.
• Philippines
7 May 09
well its a normal reaction i believe, it happens not only to you but to many of us...i always upset my hubby when i refuse so just because im tired..know what? he said the same thing but he always forget when both feel of doing it..dont worry it'll past he's just upset
• Philippines
7 May 09
Hello! Thanks for responding this discussion. i think you're right. Suggestions taken. Thanks!
@jugsjugs (13038)
6 May 09
All i can say is that you wont be the first woman or the last to anger/upset a husband/partner when you have said no to making love.I know there are alot of men that say no to women as well.Alot of people of both sexs find it hard to make love when they are tired stressed etc.Im sure that he would have prefered you to say no rather than him notice you didnt want to make love half way through.Im sure he will snap out of it.Carry on as normal and dont let it bother you too much.
• Philippines
7 May 09
hi! thanks for responding this discussion. Have a nice day!
• Singapore
6 May 09
well i guess he just angry .after a few day he will forgive. when come to gal rejected guy always like that .when guy reject gal he will always feel nothing. guy will always say they won't make love with you again ,so when you scare he will go for other gal you will give him anytime no matter you in the mood or not.
• Philippines
7 May 09
Hi! Thanks for responding this discussion. Yeah, I've realized that one of the things I have committed to my husband in our marriage was to submit myself to him fully which I forgot. Maybe, I felt that way because I'm tired and stressed out.
@Amberina (1541)
• United States
9 May 09
I'm sure he said it out of anger and after a few hours he will calm down and make up with you. He still loves you I'm sure.