How to forget the one who you love deeply?

China
May 6, 2009 9:11pm CST
When the relationship is fading and has come to end. What will you do? How to forget the one who you love deeply?
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8 responses
@youless (112000)
• Guangzhou, China
7 May 09
This is will be a sad experience. I can't say there is a good solution to it. As you had loved this one deeply, it is impossible for you to forget all of it. Just leave it by time. Time will make you feel better. Time can mend your wounds. I love China
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@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
7 May 09
i am sorry to say that i have no good ways to share.it is hard to forget the one i loved so deeply.some people say it is silly way to love the one who isn't worth to love.but people always are blind in love.
• China
7 May 09
Yeah,it is so hard.Too easy to say,too hard to do. Thanks, cindy
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
7 May 09
Hi there Sinokirin! I think that since you're already talking about forgetting, then you find the case hopeless. I think that the best thing is to deal with the pain. Cry. Share how you feel to the people who are closest to you and would never be judgmental. Your family and friends. Accept what happened and let it all go so you can move on. I would recommend surrounding yourself with the people who love you who will make you feel how much you are appreciated. Lastly, pray to God for strength, guidance and wisdom. When all else fail, He will be there for you and you'll find Him working miracles in your life.
• China
7 May 09
Thanks,nanayangel. Just as the old saying: man doesnt easily tear... hoho.Just a question.lol
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
7 May 09
It is hard to forget someone all the sudden but if you try I think you will meet your need. It takes time to forget someone that you used to love. Think of something about him/her in a bad way, and you might feel bad and try to forget him/her
• China
7 May 09
Think of something about him/her in a bad way... maybe maybe.Thanks for your response.
@tonytt2009 (1706)
• China
7 May 09
Well,for this question,I would say just try to love the other even deeper!!BUT,if you truely love someone very very deeply,I think it's very hard to forget him/her even you get married with other.What do you think?
@gicolet (1702)
• United States
7 May 09
To forget is to concentrate on forgetting and not on continuously loving the person. The best thing to do is to think of all the bad things that happened in the relationship and the things that could have happened if the relationship went on. Don't even dare to reminisce the past and the good times spent together...it's a sure killer. We don't want to die of a broken heart.
• China
7 May 09
Sure killer,good words,i like it. Thanks
• India
7 May 09
When relationship is fading then it means yours love isn't with the same intensity which it use to be, so dont bother how you will over come that deep love.TIME is a big healer and as TIME goes by you will find much tranquility and you feel forget about this deep love thing
@kodigo (171)
• Philippines
7 May 09
I don't think that is an easy task. Even years pass by and you have experienced relationship with others, the memory of your 1st love or whatever it is, it will still be there. Once it become part of your memory and your heart. The only time that you will be able to get rid of it is when you bump your head that will result amnesia or when you are old enough to have memory loss.