What is the Key to a good relationship?

United States
May 7, 2009 5:33pm CST
I need the key to a good relationship no matter how much I try I cant get a good one at all and it really really suks
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7 responses
• Philippines
8 May 09
Well for me i think you should accept the reality, reality that the other person have her own personality a lot different than yours, she have her own opinion, beliefs and attitudes and no matter how you think you have a lot of similarities still both of you will have a different angle of perspective, this differences in a person what makes them unique, respect that uniqueness and don't ever try to change that to conform to you. Just like puzzle pieces, not all have straight edges, all have different curves in order to fit to other pieces. So find someone that fits you or someone that fills what you lack. In loving someone, you love the person not only because of her good qualities but loving her in spite of having those bad qualities. Just like hubby and I, been married for 9yrs.now, the moment i marry him i know for a fact that i marry him together with all his flaws. We also have our discussions and misunderstanding but loving and accepting each others mistakes and weaknesses make the relationship strong as you grow together. Also don't forget to establish friendship, your partner is your friend, you do things for her without waiting something in return. And also pray, ask God for someone he made perfectly for you. I hope this helps...Bless you.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
7 May 09
This is a good question! Below are what I think to be the most important keys for any good relationship: Mutual respect Enough things in commom Not taking one another for granted Good, honest communication Enjoying one another's company Being in agreement on the biggest things in life I hope some of these will help you seek out the best relationships : ) Karen
• United States
7 May 09
well what i said and what she said lol put them together and their you go lol
• India
8 May 09
i think the key of good relationship is GOOD DESTINY. without which every effort fails after a certain point. only lucky ones can enjoy n live a good relation.
@chillpill90 (1936)
8 May 09
i think the key to a good relationship is to have trust and to respect both partners =]
@jellymonty (2352)
7 May 09
I think the major key to a successful relationship is Love, honesty and communication. And also you both need to have some things in common and well there has to attraction as well. Just be yourself throughout the relationship and dont try to change the other person.
• United States
9 May 09
Hmm.. the key to a good relationship. That is the question of all times! I think the key to a good relationship is love, of course, trust, compassion, and listening. Communication is a good key to relationships, if you have that then everything else could fall into play.
• United States
7 May 09
to be able to talk everything out and dont do anything stupid to mess up the relationship