Is it fair to spy on you wife ??

India
August 27, 2006 6:44am CST
Will she like it if she comes to know about it ??
13 responses
• India
6 Sep 06
I trust her, if i have a doubt on her, i can directily discuss wit that concern, spy....why?
@mahapingo (213)
• Madagascar
6 Sep 06
Yes it is if you have negative suspicion about her. But it isn't if there's no reason why to do so.
• France
6 Sep 06
No no not , it is not fare to spy on ur wife. this relationship is based on mutual trust and good understanding. If u have serious doubts talk to her openly in friendly environment. if u think she will lie to u..... then there is no solution. it is all gone. and finally would u like if ur wife spy on you? i think no , u will not like it. So why could she??
@bhchy1 (6050)
• United States
6 Sep 06
No...it isn't right to spy on anyone and most likely you would encounter a slap across the face and that would be the lightest of what she could do...
@HerShe (2385)
• Canada
6 Sep 06
Why would you marry someone who you would think you have to spy on. It seems to me that this would indicate a lack of trust, and in that case I think you should both sit down and have a chat.
@ssh123 (31086)
• India
30 Aug 06
I do not think it will help to bridge the gap. It may help you to issue divorce notice. Instead, when you are in doubt, straightway question her and get clarification from her. Some times it may be just a misunderstanding that may be causing irrigation to both the parties. What if it boomarangs. Your wife spying on you. That is why is said: honesty is the basic foundation of lasting relationship.
@swolecat (1278)
• United States
28 Aug 06
Why should You need to spy on the wife? That is the question
@jhannon (1409)
• United States
28 Aug 06
Its not fair there shoud be enough trust that u dont need to spy on her..
@rherdey (966)
• United States
28 Aug 06
I dont think it is fair for a man to spy on his wife. But itsd not fair to the man if the wife is being unfaithfull either. I would have to say not many people would like being spied on, man or woman.
• United States
28 Aug 06
Not in some cases,I do feel if your spying and you find something deal with it.
• United States
28 Aug 06
From a wife point of view, I would hate it if my hubby spy on me. It just not fair. I dont mind it because I got nothing to hide but I think that just rude and have no respect.
@vinumdas (261)
• India
28 Aug 06
It's not fair....... and in what way do you think she'll like it?
@shuz697 (1045)
• United States
27 Aug 06
depends why your spying on her... if you thinks she's being unfaithful then I think that's fine