is jus talk enough
May 10, 2009 8:42am CST
i have this friend, i think thats what i should call that, we were dating and fell in love with each other, i think we were about to get into a serious relationship when she told me she thinks we're movin to fast and she believes she is on the rebound from her last relationship. i told her we could go slower then if thats what she wants. a little while after though she started talking less whenever we talking on the phone (we live a little distance appart), i'm not much of a talking but i basically ask about things happening on her end so the reply should at least spark some conversation but she jus give some one word answers and for question that might require explanation she answer with 'i dont know'. a few times she mentioned that she thinks she'll just end up hurting me and other things that suggest she might not want to go further with me but she isn't quite saying whether she jus want to be on a friend level either. it like i'm not sure what to do i dont really enjoy talking to her like before. why do u think she is now behavin that way, if she is not interested she knows she can tell me and she don't have to worry bout me being hurt because i can handle it, it wouldnt be the first time. what do you think i should do???
10 May 09
I would say cut your losses she is probably going threw something or has met someone and knows how you feel about her and is scared to tell you since she probably doesn't want to hurt you.
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10 May 09
I hate to be harsh, but I am in a very similar situation. The way my situation is going now, I would say cut your loses. It sounds like is probably interested in someone else. You may know you can handle it, and deep down, she may know but is probably scared to tel you. Either that or she really doesn't know what she wants and needs to time an space to figure it out. I am not sure anyone really truley knows what love is or how it should be, but I do know friends end up being more important, because the majority of the time, they stickaround and support you trough times like these.