i meet some...trouble? no,actually something bring me a mental depression

@aprces (1082)
China
May 10, 2009 8:50pm CST
i wanna my girlfriend divorce his husband and she is agree with me,now they have no affective trust because of his drinking,gambling,cheating and staying out too late.so we have no divarication and love each other but her mother doesn't allow her daughter to do this which was never happened in their family.maybe i think that will lose their appearances. i have told her to divorce her husband as soon as possible and every time she promise me well,but it was never happened for about two years she told me all the problem is her mother,her mother told her if she really going to divorce her husband,then she will never admit she had a daughter who is my gf.the reason is a four-year old little baby who is the daughter of my gf,her mother said if she divorce,the baby was very pathetic,i know,i know,i know all of this now the situation is my gf is living apart of her husband and take her baby together,i am waiting for the result that i want to get. maybe there has some mistakes of our moral,she has got a family,then i shouldn't close to her,and if she wanna me,at least she must do the divorce first...etc. some time,very often,if i heard about she can't divorce that guy,i will be very whiny and i don't want to do anything then who can tell me what i'm going to do,i love her and she loves me too,i just want to stay with her as soon as possible,even thought she is not divorce yet
2 responses
@Kemboi (341)
• Eldoret, Kenya
11 May 09
May be you can give yourself a second thought and learn to be patient. Remember these couples are married they are mr and mrs and there should be no a slander among them. What you've been doing is just committing adultery. I always control my feelings because feelings comes and goes, so don't led those couples to divorce use wisdom, you may socialise for your feelings but but it is not good look for plan B.
@aprces (1082)
• China
11 May 09
loving is feeling,no a slander among them,committing adultery,all that i agree,i just don't agree "feelings comes and goes" don't led those couples to divorce use wisdom,what's meaning? anyway,thanks
@Kemboi (341)
• Eldoret, Kenya
11 May 09
May be you can give yourself a second thought and learn to be patient. Remember these couples are married they are mr and mrs and there should be no a slander among them. What you've been doing is just committing adultery. I always control my feelings because feelings comes and goes, so don't led those couples to divorce use wisdom, you may socialise for your feelings but but it is not good look for plan B.