What would you do if you met the person you were supposed to fall in love with?

United States
May 12, 2009 12:27am CST
Hmm i was asked this Question many months ago, while i was still in school, and soon i realized without knowing it, i had met a girl who i never thought id even think of as more than a friend, but innocent flirting to pass the time, and as we talked more i realized i really liked her, then i remembered back to this Question, and so now about..14 months later.. we have now been together for 7 months, so i guess i met the person/girl i was supposed to fall in love with, without knowing it, so i am wondering What would you do if you met the person you were supposed to fall in love with?
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• China
12 May 09
I'm a shy girl, when I fall in love with somebody, I don't tell him, but I would like to talk to him, and when we get close, and be good friend, I hope he can say that words first, it's hard for me to say that, because I don't know if he like me.
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• China
13 May 09
I guess it maybe a chiese girl at my first sight while i finished reading,then i read your profile,it is a chinese girl really.
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@med889 (5941)
12 May 09
Well we are not suppose to fall in love with that specific person but love is so natural that we don't even realise when we have fallen in love with that person, I think this is the wonder of love, it happens to you and yet when you try to understand when and how you cannot figure it out. But once you are in a relationship with someone you met and we are sharing wonderful feelings then you realise that this is the one you were waiting for, it happened to me too and I am lucky to have realise that.
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@Syndarin (51)
• United States
13 May 09
I had something similar happen to me almost four years ago, and I ended up with the guy as my husband and father of my child, so I guess that sort of answers your question. I suppose it's all up to how you feel about it. At first, I just thought that I wanted to be his friend, but we ended up dating, and with the history of relationships I've had, we should have been done and over with years ago. But something made me accept all the flaws that I normally dumped guys for, so I reckon that means he was the one I was supposed to fall in love with. It worked, and I'm glad.
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@helensui (19)
• China
16 May 09
if I meet one person I really have good feeling, I would ask for his telphone number and keep in touch with him. You can't afford to lose such a chance to find you life-long partner. This is how I met my boyfriend.
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@Morpher (76)
• Indonesia
12 May 09
Im a shy girl too. When i fall in love when some person, i never say it to him. I always create good friendship with him, care of him and always support him. Until i have courage, i will try to talk to him, say "i love u". And i know if he dont love me, maybe i will cry in the night. But i just want try to tell him only, if he dont love me, its ok for me, maybe we to be best friend better. But now, i already got his love and now to be my husband^^
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• United States
12 May 09
ahh that is amazing! :) hm i forgot to add this into the description but my girlfriend and i had the same exact feelings for each other, but at the same time we were both VERY afraid of rejection, so we would do our best to make each other jealous lol but recently i found out she would lie to make me feel jealous i would do the same, we both slowly fell in love with each other :) and soon she will be my wife too ;) shshs
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
25 May 09
I already have met that person. In fact, I met him in Kindergarden...hehe. See, my fiance and I have been in the same class and known each other since Kindergarden. For a long time, I've gotten away with things that other people wouldn't get away with towards him, but that's because I've always hung out with him and been "one of the guys", except I was a girl so I was given some leeway. We used to walk home together after school, too, when we were about in third grade, with his mother walking behind us. All the while we were growing up, she always told him that he should ask me out and that I was a good girl and I was pretty and she always knew that he liked me, but every time she said it he would just give her a look and walk away. Then around 8th grade I realized that I liked him, and that crush went in and out as he didn't seem to like me very much, so I would get crushes on other people, but it always came back to him in the end. And then in 10th grade I told my mother that I would marry him one day. Then in 11th I started dating someone else and I was happy for a while and forgot about Jake...but then I realized after a month and a half of clinginess that I wasn't happy with the person I was dating and I wanted to give Jake one last chance. So I broke up with my current boyfriend, gave it another 2 months while I hang out with Jake more, and then at the beginning of 12th grade I asked him out and he said yes (because me dating the other guy had made him extremely jealous and his mother, bless her, showed her pictures of us at prom and felt the need to rub it in that he hadn't asked me out himself). So here we are. We've been together since, we've been happy, going strong, and I don't regret anything about the past that's gotten us here. :) I'm glad to have known him so long and that we have all these silly stories to share with each other. Best of all, my father didn't have to go into protective mode like he usually does. xD He was just like...Jake who? Oh Lynn's kid. I remember her. We used to hang behind on your kids' field trips and smoke together in the back. xD That's my father for you. So, I guess to finally really answer your question, when I met the person I was supposed to fall in love with...I married him!
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• United States
25 May 09
Wow o_o that is an Amazing Story! KUDOS!! lol that is awesome :) i wonder at what point both of your hearts had decided the person you love, is the person you have been with your whole life, that is awesome :) congratulations! :)
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
25 May 09
Thanks a ton! Not sure when it happened, but it did, and I'm terribly thankful for it. :)
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• United States
12 May 09
I guess I would say that I would never want to be in the situation where I would never be able to see that person again. If you truly love someone, you would always be there for them. That's the way I see it.
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• Hong Kong
13 May 09
the kind of meeting the person you love and always wanted to be with, thou you have a girl that you love in the case that this will be the future of yours, meeting the girl you ever dreamed is too late thats the fact that i ever waste some tears that if i could turn back time i will choose the worlds wait till your time and you will find your love ones.
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• United States
13 May 09
My story is actually complicated. I got pregnant with my ex boyfriend when I was 19. We got engaged (not a good proposal at all), moved in together, had our daughter. I found out he was cheating on me with two girls that he worked with. I had it with all his lies so me and my daughter moved in with my parents. A month after I moved back, I was an old friend on facebook that I haven't spoken too since highschool. We starting talking again and after one night of hanging out, we saw each other almost every day. He immediately fell in love my daughter and now we are all living together. I am so happy that we were able to start talking again because I don't think I wouldn't of found the person I was suppose to fall in love with. a wedding will definitely be in the future for us. I love him very much and he is a great father figure for my daughter! =)