How many times have you been in love? I've lost count!

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
May 12, 2009 3:02am CST
Falling in love is the greatest feeling one gets, but how many times have you let your heart get broken? Haven't you learned your lesson yet and steering clear from love? I know I haven't regardless the hurts, I still find love appealing and hopeful that the next one is the right one. How about you? How many times have you been in love?
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@eponiine (141)
• United States
12 May 09
One. Much as I am open to it, or like to think I am, I can't imagine truly falling in love with anyone else. While I think that it is possible, what I cannot convince myself of is that I can love someone else MORE than him. I am contemplating retiring from love and focusing more heavily on more practical things. I find most romantic 'love' shallow and meaningless as it is. This was different, though maybe if I didn't hold love to such a high standard I could consider other feelings in my history also 'love'. I thought it was at the time.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
14 May 09
Hmm.. Just wondering though, how old are you?
• Philippines
12 May 09
I've been once, but never dared again. Right now I'm focused with other important things
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
12 May 09
whoah, it really took a huge toll on you huh?
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
13 May 09
I don't know either. I know I have been through a lot of heart breaks. Every time I say:"No More!" Then the next one is all ready there. It is weird, every time I am ready to stay alone, some one comes along to tame me. But when I want a relationship, I can't find one. Only when I am not looking. hahaha! Take care.
• India
14 May 09
Well..its been two love affairs and heartbreaks and unlike u im afraid to plunge in..fearing if this will hurt more than the last..cos each time the hurt was painfull and took me long time to get over it.But i do hope to meet the perfect man at the right time..
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@roboid (205)
• Romania
13 May 09
For me, falling in love is something unique in life. I think that the rest of the feelings that you havei n a smal realationship are just chimical reactions. It isis easy to saythat you havebeen in love alot of times, but when you will find the special one, you winn feel that is the only love. I wish you luck, Robert
• China
13 May 09
i don't know whether i am a lucky one,i married with my first lover,we have stronge marriage so far, so i havn't experience the feeling of broken hearts,but i have some strange thought that may be it is more faultlessly to married with your second lover.only keeping your first lover in the corner of your heart.
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@sanuanu (11235)
• India
12 May 09
What love you are talking about? A bf/gf love or family love like loving my mom, dad or siblings? I think you are talking about bf and gf love. I have been into it only once and I couldn't even start my relationship smoothly as my proposal was declined by my friend, whom I loved a lot!
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@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
18 May 09
I had 3 bfs before, one is my hubby. And I can't count how many boys I have dated with, but they were not my bf, they were guys who had a crush on me, I think it is good to have somebodies like ourselves, the feeling was very good.
@Amorti (200)
• Turkey
12 May 09
I don't think anyone can count this, do you care about anything else when you're in love? ;) As you said love is appealing that a person can not let go. Apart from the number of times you fall in love, the great feeling you have against a person is more important.
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