What dooes a girl look for in a man for marriage?

Hey Larish. So nice of u. This is really helpful. I cAn realise where i need to work on. Though i am not too confident as whether she would accept me again later or not. I really need her in my life. Could u suggest how to make this No a yes again from her. What do i have to do apart from the changes that u have made me realize through ur mentioned points.

hiu Larish, thank u so much for givin me this positive hope. Ya i am trying my best to be as honest, friendly and good to her so that she may be able to understand what my heart says to her.

Hi hollowheart,Just be sincere on how you treat her. Girls usually has an instinct to depend on. This will be her basis if her no will be yes in the future.

Thanks but then is there any chances that one day this be yes from her side? What would u suggest me to do so that may be she would realise that she can live with me without having to worry much? I need ur suggestions.

Actually frankly speaking in our relation we dont really love each other. There is still lots to know about each other. But i like her and feel that she is the right one for me. As she is my HR and a friend too we talk but not too much and i ahve proposed her. But i really neede her in my life. U r a good person.

I dunno... but honestly, on the other hand, girls finds no reason to reject a proposal if she really loves the person. For me, being hesitant means i am not sure of my self for what i feel towards that guy. Honestly again, based from what i experience, I can immediately say yes to that sum1 special even if i am not ready, who cares?! come what may, i dont wanna reject him, i dont want him to get hurt, i dont want him to think that i am in doubt with my feelings. Coz i know we can surpass any obstacle, the important thing is that we'll get married, and I know by heart that things will come smoothly after, as long as we have each other- and yes, this time, it means forever... =D

Hi Roxancuacoy. Thanks for the response. The reason is because he loves u and he had a lot of expectations from u. I dont say u were wrong but then his expectations were broken. I guess its the same thing that happened for me too and i should not blame her too, but ya then thats where the relation begins to crumble down slowly. Anyways hope u would get the right person soon, someone who would love u as weel as with whom u would be comfortable and sure to live with. I feel bad for ur boyfriend as i understand and can feel whats going on in his heart. But as such what is it that u girls look for in marriage?

This time im confused...... I don't know what are those factors but for sure I am not so sure with HIM.

Dont be confused. Think well on all posibilities and future and then go according to it. All the best.