Are you sure that you love only one in your life?

China
May 12, 2009 5:18am CST
i came from china,a traditional country and i have merried to a man i love so much. yes, i feel so good and happy, but sometimes i can have a question in my mind: am i sure that i can love my husband forever? if someday, i find i fall in love with another one, what can i do? do you have thinking like that,if you have,please tell me what do you have in your mind?
5 responses
Khadimhussainsubhpot
@Khadimhussainsubhpot (106)
• Pakistan
12 May 09
Shah Abdul Latif Bhittai, the great saint and sufi poet of sindh, Pakistan, Sabout in one of his inspiring and thought-provoking couplet said, " Your beloved is one,never hanker after many. You must give your heart to one, even if thousands yearns for your love. Ridiculous are those who seek their love door to door". Our love should be sincere and pure. In this materialistic world, it is indeed very difficult to find true love. However, once we feel the feeling of love for someone, we must be true and loyal to him or her.
fqiuhong
@fqiuhong (58)
• China
15 May 09
yes,true love is very precious and should be cherished.but as you said, love is just a kind of feeling,nobody can control it,so when you fall in love somebody,what you can do just accept or reject,but you can not prevent the feeling.
Khadimhussainsubhpot
@Khadimhussainsubhpot (106)
• Pakistan
15 May 09
You are right. Thank you for your comments.
angelsmummy
@angelsmummy (1696)
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12 May 09
I have never doubted the love i have for my partner, i have with my ex's but not this partner, i know i love him unconditionally and could never love anybody else, i thi k if you are having thoughts you need to reassess your relationship, and talk to him about it. He may have the same thoughts and feelings
fqiuhong
@fqiuhong (58)
• China
13 May 09
thanks for your advice. in fact, i love my husband very much, i enjoy our love so much that i am afraid that i lose this good feeling someday! you are right,maybe i need to talk with my honey.
koharukusumi
@koharukusumi (1539)
• Malaysia
13 May 09
I think it's definitely impossible that you love only one person forever unless you really 100% believe in loving one person your entire love. I don't think anyone ever loved only one person their entire life. But what you can do is devote your love to only one person which is the person you got married with and I think a matured relationship is that you can neglect any feelings for others and treat it just an infatuation. ^^
srikool
@srikool (936)
• India
12 May 09
yes im very sure in this...i love a only one man in my life ...for that...i was fighting to marry him..i had faced lot of problmes for this..still i am in the same love with him..anyway ..i gonna marry him coming sep 2nd...this what i want in my life...god have to bless to have the same love with him upto my end of life...this is great gift our life..all cant get he same..all cant love a single person...have a nice time..happy mylotting
geniustiger
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
15 May 09
i dont know yet my life soon or long time ago coming. but i love my partner now , we lived lonher enough but praying that we last forever till the end of my life. but i dont know my future yet so we just hoping and praying that it goes better till the end. it is not bad to love someone even tho u are married as long as you did not do something that can make your marriage broken. it is free to love but dont forget your spouse just an admiration in your daily situation.