will u ever express yourself in fromt of your love

India
May 12, 2009 8:24am CST
hI actually i have a question for expressing your feelings or your thoughts in front of your love one... in my case i am not able to express my feelings in front of him because he is very intelligent and he knows how to tell everything to me... but i cant do that...? so are u doing it or not..?
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@soulist (2986)
• United States
12 May 09
I always express myself to my boyfriend. I am not ashamed to let him know how I feel. Sure it may be too girly, but hey I'm a girly girl LOL. We share everything about our feelings, goals, thoughts etc. It should be easy to tell him everything and not worry about it.
• India
12 May 09
yup i know thats great...!!
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
12 May 09
Is strange, now , when i think in this, i can say that i can express my love, i can talk about my love, but i can t talk about other thoughts of mine. Now i know...so i was in a relation, and all time i was so open, but maybe because we don t were good friends too, and i don t trust in him, i talk only about my love for him. Here is a big problem, now i know, this were one of the re sons we don t comunicate one other. Maybe...not maybe is for sure, he never listen to me....just when i told him that i love him, but when i want talk about other thoughts...he open the chanel. Maybe i don t was smart enought for him...or maybe he really don t care about me and my life. yes...i don t talk in front of him about my problems all time i just listen about his problems.
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• India
12 May 09
oh i don't think this is the main problem... i mean i don't know why i cant able to express my self to him...!! but i will definitely try to do it..and i am thinking you will also try for it..!!
• China
13 May 09
my hubby is same as you,it seems difficult to express himself to me,sometimes i really don't like him temper,but i only could be accepted,after all that is him character which is inherent,he has been changing so much for me,my temper is same as your spouse,i have used to talk and my hobby is used to listen.
• India
13 May 09
oh hmmm ya u just try to open him in front of you because i can think about it... that will create problems sometime so please appreciate him..thanks for the reply...!!
• China
14 May 09
thanks for your suggestion,i have been changing him in different ways for past 9 years,he has changed for me so much ,i have come to learn how to deal with him comfortable.
@Margajoe (4718)
• Germany
12 May 09
Well yes, I try to. That is the basic to a good relationship. When I cannot say what I want too, I write it down. When you have an intelligent BF, you should be able to talk to him very well. Good luck. Take care, have a nice day!
• India
12 May 09
ya thanks u so much may be that will work also for me if i will not able to tell him then i will share with him by writing it thanks alot...enjoy...!!
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@Margajoe (4718)
• Germany
12 May 09
Your welcome. It is a great way to let him know how you feel. I write songs too. It is so much easier to put feelings down on paper. And if it is not what you want to say, you can always throw it out and start new. With speaking words, that is a little harder. hahaha! Take care, have a nice evening.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
13 May 09
time is too short or u may say life is hsort, try to learn to say it all, otherwise if the time goes away you will regret. If your partner understands that u r a silent lower and what is there in your heart, he knows all, then no problem, but if he expects, and u love him then you should do it for him.
• India
13 May 09
ya i know he expects from he and now i am able to share with him from last two days... i have tried it and he is was quite happy from me....!! thanks
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
12 May 09
i know the felling to be with someone that you know is more intelligent than u..but me i always express what i fel and what i want to someone that i love even i know is smart than me.he know things that i dont know but what i want to say and to express what i fell i put courage to coz to expres my felling to other is the most way to understand u more.
• India
13 May 09
oh well thats great..!! ya i can understand these things if i never show my feelings to him...but now i am very open to my guy...!! thanks for the reply...!!
@angelsmummy (1700)
12 May 09
I always talk to my partner about my feelings and emotions and if i cant talk about it or explain it he waits for me to explain without pushing me in any way... I think you need to b able to talk to your partner about anything
• India
13 May 09
yup i am trying for it and atmost got success..."he said wow u changed dear" hahaha well thanks to everyone...!!