do you agree long distance relationship?

Malaysia
May 13, 2009 2:54pm CST
As the topic above, what do you think about Long distance relationship?Do you have one? How do maintain a long distance relationship? Lets discuss.
10 responses
@annierose (18943)
• Philippines
14 May 09
hi ovation, Well, I am in a long distance relationship to man who is living in another country. Never in my life that I think I will have this kind of relationship. I was studying English language on one site in the internet and we met there. He is so good to me and I cannot complain anything from him. I love him unknowingly because of good traits.He had been a good friend to me and still a good boyfriend. What happened with us is like magic. Being in a long distance relationship is not that easy. One must be truly patient enough to endure those times that he or she cannot be with his/her partner.Trust and communication must always be there.Trust is one ingredient in a relationship that is important to make love grow. Another is that, partners should devote time to communicate with each other. No matter how busy is the schedule, it should not be a hindrance to both lovers in communicating. Thanks to technology because through it, communicating is much easier. We can use emails to be updated to our lover. We can also use different messengers with cam like skype, gmail, yahoo messenger and a lot more in order to decrease the feeling of longing for each other.Another is that, there should be a goal of meeting each other and the like. The goal will serve as what makes lovers keep going on with the relationship.
@Daae92 (75)
• United States
14 May 09
I'm in a long distance relationship, we've been together close to two years, we have had our problems but just like any other relationship, we get through them. We talk every night for about 6 hours or so, on weekends it's about 8-10 hours.
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@namemo25 (10)
• Philippines
13 May 09
I am currently in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We talk to each other on the phone everyday. That's how we communicate. Hmmm.. communication is always the key to this kind of relationship, plus, you have to trust each other, otherwise, it won't last that long.
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• India
13 May 09
hmm according to me.. lovers may meet or they scatter but if hearts are loyal distance does not matter knw long distance relationship are too difficult to carry out but u never know where ur loved one is..!!!!!!!1 me too having a long distance relationship n its gng fine
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@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
13 May 09
I think a long distant relationship would be harder to maintain than a close one. "Out of sight, out of mind" is a constant battle for people in long distance relationships. Then again you don't get on each others nerves when you are apart.
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@clorissa123 (4927)
• United States
13 May 09
Honestly speaking, it is hard to maintain a distance relationship. You might miss each too much, and you getting suspicious sometimes. Why not move closer from each other, because if you love each other, you should be together right?
@dio123 (1788)
• India
13 May 09
Having long distance relationship can be very healthy and useful, you can share about your knowledge about your culture, place and anything, if their is trust you can also take some guidance or share personal feelings and stressed out
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• India
15 May 09
Absence makes the heart grow fonder ^_^.A long distance relationship is no different from a proximal relationship in that they both require a great deal of work, excellent communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding. But you will have to work extra hard to maintain the communication and to stay focused enough to not let your daily life interfere with your desire to be with the other person. Don't forget them or you can forget the relationship and it will all be over.
@rmuxagirl (7552)
• United States
14 May 09
I do agree with long distance relationships. They are hard work and both parties need to be willing to work very hard to keep them going. I have had long distance relationships in the past and it was so hard to work at and if both parties aren't willing to work at it, it won't work.
• Malaysia
14 May 09
i guess you need to have a solid trust, as you're not able to see what your other half is doing. And you need to have lots of faith, enough to not make you give up on your relationship. but i believe, in the end, love is what that holds you together. if two people really love each other, no matter how far they apart they are, they'll be able to go thru the relationship. love knows no boundaries