Does everything happen for a reason?

@Daae92 (75)
United States
May 13, 2009 10:54pm CST
I was just wondering everyone's opinion on this. My fiancee believes that everything happens for a reason. I don't agree with her. I don't see how everything in this world can happen for a reason. So what is every one's opinion on this? Thanks for your opinions =]
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@gangis (241)
• Philippines
14 May 09
Maybe or maybe not, it depends upon the situation. We are he one who made choices and what will happen to us. Sometimes we say it as an excuse of what had we have done before in our lives. Also if you think, some things are just made to be happened and there's always a reason for it. I hope this could help.. Have a nice day...
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@Daae92 (75)
• United States
14 May 09
I never thought of it that way....thank you for telling me that, I may just change my opinion. Happy mylotting =]
• Malaysia
14 May 09
I have to say that I am on your fiance's side. I always believe everything that happens in this world has a purpose. God has created us with a destiny way ahead planned before we are even born. We live in this world just to follow what has been destined for us, but we have the right to change our fate by initiating everything we could. Whatever that happened, whether it is good or bad, has a reason behind it and we should take it positively so that we could learn from it. It is not easy as said, I know this. Sometimes when a bad thing happens, we tend to find fault from other people, and sometimes we also blame the God. But what I've learned all my life, we have to be patient while dealing with bad luck. With patience, we can find alternatives to overcome the problem and prevent ourselves from getting hurt more in the process of healing and getting up from the fall.
@Daae92 (75)
• United States
15 May 09
You may just have a point. Thanks for telling me your opinion :]
@MyzDy19 (919)
• Philippines
14 May 09
Actually many people believe in that even me. When I was in HS I also believe in that. Maybe because it's one way of denying that sometimes we got hurt, failed or whatever you call it that can bring one person down to depression and that's not easy to accept or overcome. So what will that one person do? I guess He/she will have to convince herself/himself to accept what had happened because it happens for a reason. He/she may not understand what the reason is but the point is...it never been wasted.