I love my friend pls. read this
By Dwexx
@Panther333 (31)
Philippines
May 14, 2009 8:43am CST
I am a very selective person,I only select few person whom I would like be my friend....
and once I've selected one, I give my all to him/her, my time, my effort and my life and my love even when you say he/she is just my friend. I can give my whole time for him/her even it's already been giving me inconvenience, I think of my friend first before myself.
I had a chance to have this kind of a friend of mine, we had been hanging out, texting, and giving each others sweet words like "i love you" until we got used to it. Everytime my friend was in-need i was always there, everytime my friend was hungry I share my money. Everytime my friend liked me to be around i was always there. In-short my world was just revolving for my friend. And when summer vacation had started our communication also got lost. One day my friend has texted me saying " I don't want to be your friend anymore" (without any reason) And it has been become a big gesture for me until now... That's why i've been thinking what is the best way I should do and how will I face my friend when we see each other agin in school, now that the school year is nearly coming. And I need to get some help for the readers whom would be able to read this. I hope that i would get good advice. I need to get some encouragement from so that I will be able to get rid of my friend.
2 responses
@faisai (1138)
• Hong Kong
15 May 09
Before I post my comment, I want to share a true experience of mine.
When I was in college, I have a very good friend of mine that we also hang out from time to time, texting (though no "I love you" stuff). We do share whatever happened around us and who is dating her (OK, she is a her and I am a man).
Then, we came to a project which requires quite some effort doing. So, as a good friend of her, I think I can take up most of the problematic part and leave the easier things to her. I haven't received any complaints from her so I thought it should be a good way. But then, I was wrong, she didn't like it at all and was next to upset of what I was doing. She thought that I look down on her and thus not let her do the job (which I honestly haven't thought that way).
After the project, we met fewer and fewer and finally we became "just friend".
Back to your problem, I would say just take it easy. Friends come. Friends go. You lose this one, another one may be just around the corner. This one doesn't treasure you. The next one may prove better.
@Panther333 (31)
• Philippines
15 May 09
But how could I let go of my friend, if my friend has been so close to me. I don't like my friend go away from me, because I treasure my friend so much.
@jcservant (96)
• Philippines
14 May 09
Hello Panther333. How nice it would be if all people is like you towards their friends, in terms of being always there when needed. May I ask first is your friend a female? cause I'm wondering maybe your friend fell inlove with you that's why abruptly saying that to you...whatever the problem is you can approach your friend and talk about it. Think about the good times you had together, I presume that its more valuable than a small misunderstanding. By the way do you really mean the last sentence in your post? "encouragement to be able to get rid of your friend?" hmmmm...either it shouldn't be there or you typed the wrong details...anyways I hope and pray that everything will work out just fine for the two of you. God bless and happy mylotting.
@Panther333 (31)
• Philippines
15 May 09
Thanks for your reply. yes i really mean it coz i think my friend doesn't really need me anymore so i think I must avoid my friend already so that i could not be hurt anymore.
