Do you go for physical beauty or inner beauty?
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
May 14, 2009 5:43pm CST
Some girls just wasn't worth the love, although they have physical advantage over others. Just imagine the girl you pursuing to. She is pretty, and she spend most of her time to beautify herself. She always on shopping spree, like makeup, fancy clothings, and other stuffs. You would be the one who end up buying her all those stuffs. A beauty without a brain simply to say. Do you think this type of girl worth your effort? Even you are a millionaire, you won't even want to be with this type of girl, if you can plan out your good future.
Although some girls are not as pretty as I described above, they have inner beauty. They are more considerate, and they are you backbone when you are down. Just considering what you are getting.
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16 responses
@goodbuys4you (207)
• United States
15 May 09
A woman with a beautiful appearance is certainly enjoyable to look at, but a relationship involves a lot more than just looking at somebody. Many movie stars have great outward beauty but their relatonships and marriages fail again and again.
My wife is very attractive to me, but may not fit Holywood's standards of glamor. One of the reasons she is so attractive to me is because I thoroughly enjoy being with her. It's a delight to talk with her, spend time with her, and do things with her.
I wouldn't trade my wife for any so-called beauty queen that lacks the character and personality that I so love spending my life with. After nearly 7 years of marriage I'm still ever so much in love with her.
@angemac23 (2003)
• Canada
15 May 09
I go for inner beauty. There is nothing worse than a handsome face but no brains! Also, the better someone looks, the longer they spend in the bathroom prepping which means they do not have many interests. I would rather go out with someone who is smart, fun and interesting instead or boring and good looking!
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
16 May 09
it depends on the person. u cant generalize people. i like seeing both physical and inner beauty. both together make the person complete. while some people have such a strong personality that u forget about their looks. the people i liked in the past, i liked for different reasons. they all looked different.
@babyorchid (1737)
• China
14 May 09
i think the best choice is have physical and inner beauty .lol,but it's hard.
while, i think if u let me choose,i think i will pick up inner beauty.u know one thing, we can make us pretty by makeup and keep healthy, and cloth
if u can avoid ur weakness on wearing, pretty is an easy thing, but inner beauty isnt
hhaa
best wishes
@SHEKHAR3009 (162)
• India
15 May 09
hi
you have both physical and inner...will u luv to live in india with me.
ur looking cute...i messGED U ONCE BUT U DIDNT REPLY.
BYE
LUV
SHEK
INDIA
@Dorrdavy (275)
• Jamaica
15 May 09
its always best to have both, the truth is if you lack one, it is most likely that you will lack the inner beauty since everyone is already beautiful and unique.
what makes you ugly is when you lack that inner beauty.
i personally dont like it when women spend all their spouses money shopping and trying to look good, i am not saying it is not important to look good but they need to do it with moderation.
i have been married for 3 yrs and i have never asked my husband for anything, not money, not shoes, not clothes, nothing, ofcourse i will accept whatever he gives me but i dont pressure him for anything.
(not saying anybody else should do that ok.)
@aakansha12 (183)
• India
15 May 09
Well i prefer inner beauty more . I will want my boyfriend to be better have inner beauty than those showy looks . He should have a heart and respect for me . Its very important to choose a person which himself try to sees your inner beauty and loves your inside heart than outside beauty because one day that beauty might fade away but inner beauty lives on.
@akumei1269 (1749)
• India
15 May 09
There is nothing to deny what you are saying. Everybody agrees to it only after gathering much knowledge of life.
I think you are in a dilemma, aren't you, regarding which one to choose in a relationship tangle? Mind it too much of everything is bad.This applies to inner beauty too.
@aaronme18 (10)
• Philippines
15 May 09
I go for inner beauty because it is more important that the physical beauty. Because physical beauty fades while inner beauty don't.
@SHEKHAR3009 (162)
• India
15 May 09
hi
inner beauty...ur frm which country i too still search for soulmate...
ur pic pls..
bye
luv
shek
@xbeautyme_27x (28)
• Philippines
15 May 09
hi the most important is the inner beauty, well this is my own opinion i am not talking in general, for me the most important is the beauty inside because if you have that kind of beauty, someone up there will see you beautiful inside and out!
@yoyozhou (356)
• China
15 May 09
I don't know how to say. I think most of guys like pretty girls although they say they like girls with inner beauty. As a girl, sometimes I can understand why girls do their best to loose weight,why girls makeup and choose cloth etc. They just want to be loved by guys. So I think it is unfair to say that. If guys just want girls with inner beauty ,the world will be simple.For me, I don't persue for physical beauty.One is because I have no money. Aother is because it is too tired to do that.I just want to be simple.
@Hedwig (283)
• China
15 May 09
I agree with you. I also think inner beauty is more important than physical beauty for girls. That's why I come to my college and want to go for further education after graduation. However, recently I am thinking that maybe I should beautify myself a bit. Most of my clothes were bought when I was in high school, and they do make me a bit childish.
@asherem2 (257)
• Thailand
15 May 09
"Beauty is in the eyes of the Beholder."
Physically, a gorgeous woman worth your while - but emotionally and spiritually, what matters is the woman with such valuable inner beauty.
I always beleive that the inner beauty comes out...and that what makes a woman beautiful and feel loved.
Charm is deceptive and beauty isvain, but a woman that fears the Lord, she shall be praised.
@queennee (186)
• Philippines
15 May 09
hi clorissa,inner beauty for me is more important than physical.its true that physical beauty is more attractive at first glance but in the long run when u get to know the person personally,we will just realize that attitude is more important.physical beauty is only temporary and will fade as we grow older,while inner beauty lasts long..till we die :) good day!
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
15 May 09
i like the girls who is inner beauty more than physical beauty.i knew some beautiful girls before.but most of them are ugly inner heart they always envy others and tried to hurt others by speaking or look down others.they just had good feeling and wanted more money from men in their life.they didn't love a man for long time and changed often just for playing.yes,they are beautiful by looking but they are ugly inner heart.
@cicisnana (772)
• United States
14 May 09
No, I think beauty is actually only skin deep. The true beauty is the woman or man who loves themselves, then they will love you and every one around them. Any one can be beautiful to look at. Money will see to that.
