Love at first sight? or lust ar first sight?

@alvingb (265)
Singapore
May 16, 2009 1:16pm CST
Is there really love at first sight? well i only used to see them on hollyhood and bollyhood mainly. is this true? Well how can u actually be in love with someone the first time you see them? Can this be Lust instead of love that has been misunderstood?
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6 responses
• Philippines
16 May 09
Attraction comes first, love follows. Love takes time and grows deeper in time. Lust is on first impulse, then it may stay or it can be lost through time.
@alvingb (265)
• Singapore
16 May 09
Wow,, you sound like a poet man.. nice saying.. so therefore i can see that you dont agree to love at first sight? well love develops along the way. thats what i feel too.. so Love at first sight does not exist?
• Philippines
16 May 09
Nope. It's not love at first sight. It's just attraction or appreciation of beauty. It's like when your shopping, you tend to get attracted to things that you'd buy. When you see a beautiful thing, you buy it. Then as time pass by, you develop love for that thing, it gradually forms some sentimental value to you.
• India
16 May 09
Hi dear. "It is love that has been misunderstood always and not the lust." It is true, Love at first sight can happen.
@alvingb (265)
• Singapore
17 May 09
hi. well seriously. how does that happen bro? you look at someone and you know she or him is your love? dont all attraction starts physically? even if you have not seen someone and u just speak on the phone, the reason u might feel u have fallen in love with the person is because of the sweet voice or the nice polite, mautred manner the person is speaking. well it all boils down to physical attributes doesn't it?
@galileo2008 (1146)
• Philippines
16 May 09
I think it's lust at first sight and not love at first sight. It's always the physical part that will be noticed first. Being inlove with someone is somethng which can happen if you get to know the person better.
@alvingb (265)
• Singapore
17 May 09
hi galileo, well i think i do agree with ya. i mean how do you actually fall in love with someone in a sec when u just see them.. it just dont make sense. the first thing that attracts you to even make you feel you love that person is because of the looks of the person, or the voice of the person. its the physical attributes that comes first.. you do make sense galileo.
@biman_s (1060)
• India
19 May 09
There is really love at first sight. I have fallen in love with a girl when I first met her. Since then it has been magical. For love at first sight to happen you must be looking for a life partner not someone to just spend time with.
@Aestrea (23)
• Canada
17 May 09
I think it's more lust than love at first sight- you gotta be attracted to that person before you try to know them better and then fall in love with what you find. That's why I think the phrase 'falling out of love' isn't very realistic either: you don't fall out of love, you 'fall out' of being attracted to the other person. Attraction is more based on first impressions, love is something you learn to do over a long period of time.
• United States
17 May 09
it should be called "lust (that may or may not turn into love) at first site"