How Do You Know IF Someone Truly loves You?
By Payout
@payout (3794)
United States
May 16, 2009 2:17pm CST
I'm in love.. very in love.. and I think the person I'm in love with loves me back. Yesterday we was talking about things that made me look at him different.
Like would u ever do this or that.?
Have you ever found other people attractive?
Have you ever wish you was single?
Stuff like that... and we told each other the truth. In the end idk.. I see him different now.. a little but not a lot.. Just thinking about it him makes me feel funny. Like Happy, scared, loved.
He loves me making me feel loved..
Happy because I make him happy and he makes me happy.
Scared because he thought about being single and how u have more freedom.
He knows I feel this way just.. my trust went down someone.. Now I can only picture him cheating on me or flirting with someone. OR just leaving me. idk...?
I think he loves me a lot... But something is telling me.. different.. something different about him..
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8 responses
@littleme16ga (360)
• United States
16 May 09
All you can do is wait and see. If you don't have trust you don't have anything. Don't keep thinking in the back of your head that he's going to cheat that'll only make things worse. If he cheats you will find out and get through it the best way you know how. Don't dwell on whether or not he loves you as much as you love him and don't worry if it's meant to be you'll stay together.
@JUNEWESLEY (19)
• China
17 May 09
If you wanna know a person who is truly loves you or not, the only thing is to wait or touch your heart to feel if he is real man that you deserved, As a poverb says, " A man knows companion is a long journey and a little inn", and a man is not good or bad for one action, so trust yourself can choose well!
Good luck!
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@jersey86 (1348)
• Philippines
17 May 09
Hi payout...
True love takes time-- time to know and time to grow. Knowing a person always takes time and there is no "short cut". Growing a relationship takes time, and God exacts couples in love to "grow up".
True love is more concerned with the personality, the kind of person the partner really is. Love examines the habits, the inner virtues or vices. True love pays attention to the character, the inner self. This love, which comes from God, tries to look at a person the same way to God looks at people."Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart" While we cannot read a person's heart, our concern should be more with the beauty of character rather than the beauty of figure. On the other hand, true love refrains from enjoying today that which it will regret tomorrow.
@eztuner (450)
• United States
17 May 09
that's call knowing people you are with, fairy tale is, that there is nothing imperfect about love, you love someone when you know them and still, you rather be with that someone than with anybody else. the same apply for the one who love you.
Enjoy your feelings, enjoy the moments, if he is not the one, time is not forgiving so sooner or later you will find out.
Read this http://hellium.com/items/1447770-first-love the article in question is the 4th if it helps let me know. Be happy!
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
17 May 09
when you experienced being in love, trust is always involve... you can't love someone if you can't even invest your trust to special someone or to whoever that person is... hesitations won't help you... instead, it will just create a gap between your interaction towards him or your connection with him
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@jackieroz_02 (139)
• Philippines
17 May 09
trusting him is your decision, breaking that trust is up to him..so just wait and see..being paranoid would definitely make it worse.. or it can even force for it to happen coz you are already expecting him to go wrong... that's just already making your decision to stop trusting
goodluck!
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@angelajoy (1825)
• Philippines
17 May 09
If you're having doubts, then don't rush into things. You might want to get to know him a little better before anything else. If he really loves you like you think he does, then he would find a way to show you that he loves.
@downincrowd (1)
• China
17 May 09
positive answers or truly answers, try to get a balance
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