love in disguise
By jackieroz_02
@jackieroz_02 (139)
Philippines
May 17, 2009 1:38am CST
how would you show someone that you love him without being obvious?
Well i really have this problem, I know from the start that relationship between us is fruitless... but how can I stop this feeling... that I always have this urge to show it to you.. but letting you know or being obvious about it would definitely destroy our malice free and uncomplicated relationship we have..
want to get closer..an inc by inch getting closer, staying quiet..making my way into your heart...maybe there I would have a chance to break your barriers
just need to get ahead...but how can I take the first step without being noticed? help!
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5 responses
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
17 May 09
you have to make sure that you really love the guy. sometimes when its hard to get, we are are too eager to get it but once we have it, then we realize we don't really like/love it. Just like our feelings, we like the guy and we will do our best to notice us but when he start courting you, then you realize you dont like him at all.
@jackieroz_02 (139)
• Philippines
18 May 09
i think it happens, maybe we just love the chase and once we got what we wanted then kinda take it for granted..
I guess we have to be careful of what we wish for and what we pursue unless we are rready to face the consequences if ever we reached our goal
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
17 May 09
A the questions about love... Before you take the next step, take a second to analysis your true intentions.. It sound like you both have a good relationship right now, but you would like more. It also sounds like the guy has had problems in past relationships, that might be part of the reason he try to go to the next step. I guess a way that you can show him that you love him without being really obvious would have to be; spend more time with him just doing what ever you guys already do. If he doesnt shy or scare way from that, ask him to go out for coffee during a lunch break or something like that... lunch doesnt seem to be so formal, or like a date situation. But if the guy really shys away from the extra time that he spends with you, then maybe he is just not ready for the next step, or happy right were he is and doesnt want to change.. If that does arise then the ball is in your court... are you willing to just be friends and leave your other emotions aside or is it just too much to keep within you... thats something you will have to decide, good luck
@jackieroz_02 (139)
• Philippines
18 May 09
yes , thanks a lot, , maybe we are both not ready that's why no one is making the move... thanks for making me realize that
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
22 May 09
I used to have predicaments like this but, I sure did do that in different ways. I would act angry after waiting for a long time but, actually really excited when she agreed to meet with me at some point in time. Acting like I didn't want to do those favors that she asks from me but, I always considered them done the moment she asks of them. A lot of false gestures just to avoid being caught.. (^_^")
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
18 May 09
Honesty is the best policy. Tell him how you really feel but that you at least want to be good friends. If it is really true love and meant to be, you will never lose him for long. If it isn't true love, friends are important in life as well. True love stands the test of TIME. Don't hurry anything.
@technoobs (406)
• Philippines
18 May 09
So long as the guy you want to is not into any relationship, It might be good to step forward and do the talking. Have something that would come up to as a good setup of interacting with him. In that way too is spending time a little bit longer, catching up what is in his mind.
So that's it.. maybe you have to look something for the best of you.. good luck.
