household chores or babysitting?

@yonkie (440)
Philippines
May 17, 2009 9:02am CST
Nowadays, there are so many things that need to be done at the house. It happened when my niece has no babysitter and our house helper decided to quit her job. Since I am a home buddy person and most of the time I am at home, my sister ask me to babysit her daughter when she is on her work. My mother needs my help and assistance also for some household chores. Between the two, I rather do the household chores than babysitting my 7 months old niece. It is fun to play with baby. But when her tantrums exist, oh my god I cannot take it anymore. If you are given the choice, what do prefer to do and why.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
17 May 09
Well this is easy for me I love to clean so that is what I would choose. However, at this time in my life I am doing both. Taking care of my 3 year old granddaugher and keeping the house clean. I have worked outside of the house for 32 years and this is definitely a different way of life for me. I'm trying to find work at home that will pay the bills but haven't found anything as of yet. Have a great day!
• Philippines
17 May 09
baby sitting a 1 year old baby is not really easy..it's the most tiring.but during this age they show funny gestures and acts that can totally makes you forget of your tiredness..especially if you are babysitting your own child or grand children, there is no such thing equivalent to their hugs and kisses. I also do both babysitting and babysetting. The latter, babysetting- to know the baby's wants and attitude to prevent the child from getting upset. From this, babysitting would be such an enjoyable thing to do. I also observe that babies become upset only if they have inadequate sleep and hungry..learn the child's routines and moods if you want to handle them or else they will be the ones handling you.hehehe
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@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
18 May 09
Oh, I hope I know that babysetting thing. Babysitting a 7 month old baby is really different from babysitting a baby who knows how to walk and talk.
@jellymonty (2352)
17 May 09
Well thats an easy one for me.. chores! I don't have much contact with children these days so yep honestly if I had to choose it would be chores. I love being clean and I do my best to keep my enviroment clean. Although they are days am soooo lazy when it comes to chores!
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@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
18 May 09
It would be best if you can compare household chores from babysitting experience. Nice to hear from you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about the discussion. I really appreciate it.
@dodo19 (47066)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
17 May 09
To be honest, I'd rather babysit my 3-year-old and 1-year-old nieces than do house chores. Yes, they do occasionally get on my nerves, but that's normal. And even then I'd still prefer to babysit my nieces. I still do some house chores as they need to be done, but it's not my favorite thing to do. I've always preferred to babysit and play with children rather than do house chores.
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@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
18 May 09
Good for you. Thank you for sharing..
@dookie03 (578)
• United States
17 May 09
Ya know i'd rather do chores than take care of a 7month old too. I mean i've got an 18month old and he's just been wearing me thin with his little tantrums and facial expressions. Your right there is a lot of chores these days and usually i'll do them just to stay busy enough where my wife will pretty much watch the kid all day with the exception of doin stuff outside and hanging out with dad in the garage or whatever. I just can't wait for him to be old enough to do some of these chores himself.
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@wahmivy (776)
• Philippines
17 May 09
I do both all the time.:) If it's your kid, of course you'll choose childcare over household chores. However, when I give my husband the choice between the two, he always opts for the household chore. Nice :( Not that he doesn't like spending time with our daughter, he just doesn't want to be in charge of her care.
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@technoobs (406)
• Philippines
18 May 09
If I am to be a home buddy guy, Id prefer doing both. here's the trick, take the baby with me at my mother's place, baby sitting while doing the household chores. I am a guy and I do love babies..
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@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
18 May 09
I think a 7 month old baby is still pretty managable compared to a toddler. You get to take naps when she is also sleeping. You just have to discover how to distract her from what is bugging her and have her focus on something else. You will discover that a baby changes mood abruptly. If I am in an interactive mood, I would choose the baby, but if I am feeling a bit anti-social, then I would probably choose the housechores instead, because the baby will definitely not enjoy my company if I will not be playful hehe
18 May 09
I prefer on doing household chores, babysitting is a lot pain to me (maybe)
@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
21 May 09
I'm with you on this one. I would also rather take the household chores over baby sitting. I can't take anything that I don't understand - I guess that goes with the fact that "it's not my baby" that I fail to understand how it behaves and where its tantrums stem from. I prefer things that I can control. I can't make a baby shut up but I can certainly make dust "magically" disappear with the help of my broom wand LOL Thanks for the response on my discussion!
• United States
18 May 09
Well i do both now...LOL...I do what i need to around the house and also have 2 Children a 3 year old and a 1 year old.My 3 year old usually ends up next door to play with the little boy thats a little younger than him but they play well together. My 1 year old is a CRY BABY. He cries all the time when hes not being held or doing something he wants you to do. But when id do house work id put him in the play pen so i know he dont get hurt but that didnt work so he now follows me around the house and as i put up he pulls back out but i tell him no,please dont do that and he'll stop and then he'll go pick up his toys and put them in the toy box but they dont stay like that for long. LOL BUT with a 7 month old...u could try a swing,walker,play pen,Bottle,Toys could be a few things to try and see if one works.best of luck to you.
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@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
17 May 09
If it's not a choice, I can do both job at the same time. When my younger brother still a baby, I often need to babysit him. So, I do both job at the same time. I put him in the playpen while continue doing the chores. Using the baby walker was a good idea too but it would gave him more freedom to explore and more things to reach. That's why the playpen work best. Besides, my younger brother can be left alone to play so there's no problem.
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@yonkie (440)
• Philippines
18 May 09
I hope putting my niece in a playpen or a walker can satisfy her. However the problem is she don't like to be place in a play pen. I am afraid also to used baby walker. She is the type of baby who wants you to carry her most of the time. She also wants you not to stand in one place.
@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
21 May 09
You can try leaving her there and let her throw a tantrum. She'll quite down after a while. Still, it won't work if you don't have enough heart to do it or others around.
@betsyhu (207)
• China
18 May 09
I would rather household than babysitter. Baby is lovely at the same time noisy. You have to care for her sleeping, eating, and so on. unless, you best like baby though it's not your baby. My character tending to silence, so for me, I prefer do household, when finish, I have time to do my interesting with all my heart. but babysitter is not.
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@anamarp (93)
• Philippines
18 May 09
i love both ,,
@anamarp (93)
• Philippines
18 May 09
i love both, I love babies and also i love to some households chores.....