May 18, 2009 2:24am CST
I'm transferring to another college this year and I feel so sad to leave my friends behind. I'm planning to give them a key chain. But I have some unresolved issues with one of my friend which was the one I liked and who liked me before. We didn't have any contact anymore cause I guess we had a silent war. It's very complicated but is it still ok to give him some thing like the key chain with everyone else? do i have to face to face give it to them? because I really don't like goodbyes and I especially don't like to see him and give him the key chain. What would I do? and how to have a fresh start in the college? thanks mylot members
18 May 09
It's always hard to start a new life somehow, when u have been in a particular place for such a long time ^_^ Bonding with frenz is build up along with time and experience u have shared with each other, and thus that's really valuable.. Thus, it's actually a good idea to give everyone a small gift, to remember u, as well as cherish all the good times together ^_^ As for the guy, u ought to give him one too ^_^ As it means, he shall be in your memory only, and that's it.. Because when u are around him, he did not cherish u.. NOw that u are leaving, u should actually make him feel bad and regret those things that he should have done long ago ^_^
18 May 09
Its normal for transferries to other colleges to have that kind of friends. If they tend to help you or have the best regarding school subjects, then it would be better to know and be with them. This way you can go for a better coleagues in campus that you have just entered.
18 May 09
Hi there lonely_f16! I guess it must be pretty hard to leave your friends, especially if you're already close to them. It's a nice way from you to give key chain, and I guess although you have this 'cold war' with one of them, it is still ok to give him the key chain. Regarding the way you plan to give it, how would you like to give it to others? If you give the key chains to others face to face, then I think it will be better if you give him the same way, too. Besides, you are moving to other college, anyway..so you probably won't meet him again. Regarding your question of how to have a fresh start in the college, I guess it will be the same as starting anything. We might get clumsy for the first time, but eventually we'll get used to the new ambience. Hope this helps :)