do you think you are mature enough?

i've been to a lot of cases in which i get to decide to whether pursue things or not. experiences taught me about being mature enough on some stuff. i don't say that i'm that old enough to decide on all things. i'm still needing the opinions of others before jumping into wild conclusions. most of the stuff that i used to decide alone are not that perfect so now i always resort to second and perhaps third opinions.

some people said that i havent change that much. its fine with me though. but sometimes with all the responsibilities im facing now, i guess somewhat im getting alittle bit matured. helping with our evryday problems and needs is not that easy to face and helped out. but still i dont want to change some of my ways. my friendly and childish ways. i dont want that this problems may strip some of my youthful and a child like ways. i also dont want to grow old that faster because of problems.

I should be by now. If I'm not, there must be something wrong, lol. I think I'm [b][/b]a lot more mature than I was when I was in college. I'm getting closer to 60 so I better be. It sounds like you are plenty mature to me. Kathy.

Good questions arised. In short, When I was 14-20, at that time I were thinking that I am quite mature these days , coz non of my brothers were in house and I was to handle and carry responsible for all happenings in house. Nobody can reject my ideas and philosophy. I was strict and all were afraid of me, appreaciate my ideas as well. I was to think and make decisions carefully. These days, I am 25 but still think I don't have grown up to the maturity. I am still kid and young. I don't have idea for my life, what to do, I am almost time confused. People's 1st stage is immature and then becomes mature, but in my case you can read above, I was 1st matured and immature nowadays. Anybody has comment for this! AB_Singh