How long should I wait?

May 19, 2009 8:51am CST
Is it me getting too impatient or should i wait a few months more before seeing a doctor? Benn married for almost a year now but still I haven't got pregnant. I'm 34 so I want to have kids right away considering that time is ticking on me and my folks are excited as well to see their first grandchild. So How long should I wait?
5 responses
@dsrtrose (166)
• United States
20 May 09
I assume by trying that you mean you are tracking ovulation time and utilizing it for conception, there is a narrow window monthly, that you are highly fertile. If you haven't tried that, do. If no luck then see a doctor. Also trying TOO hard will make stress too high and decrease chances of pregnancy. I went through this 20 years ago, so I know. Good luck to u . And DO enjoy the TRYING part! LOL!
• Philippines
21 May 09
WOW! I've never thought of that, the tracking part, I never did so. But that's really great news for me. I sure will try it. Thanks a bunch! Mwahhhh!!!!!
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
30 May 09
if u and ur husband want to get married, keep trying until it happens. see a doctor if you have to in order to see what is going on. consider fertility tattoos and statues. my late grandmother had many fertility tattoos, and she gave birth to 7 kids.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
19 May 09
If it's been that long then you should go to see a doctor. and it feels good too cuz then you know what is going on and you dont have to wait, if you want to wait for and more... how long are you going to wait? dont wait any longer, make an appointment and get the resolve as soon as possible.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
19 May 09
Its time to go to doctor today. In order for you to check up what happened inside your falopian tube and others. In this checkings you know the real truth ofwhats the cause. And also your partner to check if there's lacking or not. Then you are advice to do this and that depending on the result.
• United States
22 May 09
ive been married a little over 2 years and ive yet to get prego yet just gotta hang in there...the wait sucks but it will happen when its ment to happen