how to refuse a girl!?

China
May 20, 2009 5:34am CST
hi, my lotter, have you ever come into such a sh*t that when you have a lovely girl friend, but another girl sqeeze in the between for no reason but just like/love you and now i am in the sh*t.so complexed and so terrible. I just told the second girl the situation we were in, but it seemed useles. what can i do, and how can i do ! you advice will be appreciated! god bless you my freinds, and have a nice day!
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@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
21 May 09
Hi there Crazy Racer. I agree with Carina, she told you good about the fact that you have to decide on only one ! It is not fair to them and it is not fair to you - you may not feel that way now, but what will happen if you go out with one of them and the other calls you... and the examples of problems can be endless. I think you should choose one after careful consideration, and take into account all variables - be sure that the second girl is not just messing with you, or that she is not doing this as an ambition, to see if she can brake you from your girl and after she says she is not interested anymore.
• China
21 May 09
and thank you elitess, you name the core of the matter, i will take the advice you give. but how can i refuse one! anything come with a reason. godbless!
• Portugal
20 May 09
ok so, do you like them both? if you like them both you should step away for a few days to see wich one you want to be with, don't juggle girlfriends, it's not fair to them or to you. if you like your girlfriend and not the other girl, just let her no, and if she doesn't leave you alone, just don't pay her any atention. if you prefer the other girl over your girlfriend, break up, it's not fair to be in a relationship that's leading no where.
• China
21 May 09
Hi,catarina, thanks for your advice, i think i will take it. yes, it is unfair to me and the girls.but the problem is that how can i , how to refuse. maybe some concrete advice you can give me and thank you !Q godbless!