Unemployed love,do you raise him/her?

My fiance and I aren't employed at the moment, both of us earn money online and the little we do earn goes towards a bill we must pay before getting married - debt! Yep! Well Right now we're very happy and we know that money doesn't matter. When we do have a job, if one of us gets laid off, fired or just quit because we're tired of the racket, then we know we'll pick each other up and carry the other's weight! Money doesn't matter, love does, and without love, there's nothing!

I would most definitely support my partner,if he did not have a job and I did, OR vice-versa. We think of a relation as the keys of a piano. To play music when some keys go up, other keys come down. There is balance and there is peace and love in our lives. In fact, it has happend in the past that for a while my partner had to take up some important full time courses,during which I(being a woman),still paid all the bills.And when I wanted a break,I took it.That is when he paid the bills. So we support each other a 100% .

It depends really on the mentality of the love you are talking about. If that love is a male then as per societal demands, the primary earning responsibility is no him. If he is laid off for the moment, that certainly should not be reason enough for a break in relation...you should nurture him but if after sometime he comes across as a freeloader then you will have to rethink the relation. Regarding women, well they are not considered as the primary earners and to be very frank, wives have been 'raised' by their husbands all their married life.