do u feel guilty after shouting on ur parents in frsustation?
@nirmalsaurabh (205)
India
6 responses
@ebook_freak (1511)
• India
21 May 09
Oh man... you are making me feel guity now!
I have shouted at my parents today morning for a seemingly petty reason. I really couldn't control myself. I should have. But, man.. I was really in a frustrated mood and all, so I couldn't get a grip.
After shouting I feel guilty and I want to tell sorry. But I can't do it. I don't know why, but my tongue doesn't let me do it! Today was ruined, it always happens like that. When ever I shout my day gets ruined. I know, parents are to be treated next to God according to Indian culture, but sometimes I can't help myself but shout. I try to control, but there wont be any use.... I hope you can understand my feelings.
Sorry for being emotional.
I should have behaved properly. And everytime I do this: I am going to do this again: I promise hereby that I won't hurt the feelings of my parents again.
I hope I can keep it.
Regards,
A.J.
@ebook_freak (1511)
• India
21 May 09
SO the truce is made right?
I feel this pang of guilt everytime I shout at them. And thank you for the encouragement. Yes, I will try to say a sorry next time.
And by this discussion, we will try to be as good as possible in front of our parents.
The deal is done then!
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@nirmalsaurabh (205)
• India
21 May 09
its d same thing wid me budy..i even dnt get y all dis happen..even if knw dat everything happend wud have easily avoided..n after realizing i felt guilty enuf..but i find myself unable to collect dat courage to say a simple word"sorry"..
i knw parents are best gift given by GOD..n they should b treated as nxt to GOD..well...all i say is i want to promise here dat i wud nt shout or misbehave wid my parents again...
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@nirmalsaurabh (205)
• India
21 May 09
dear i too used to shout when my senses stops working to whom u r talking....but the main thing is when u got realization..then y dnt we apologize...is it because we dnt have courage to say "sorry" or is it we find ourselves correct that it was in frustration....????
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@Naomij (46)
• China
21 May 09
I know what I have done is wrong. But i am always keeping my caprice in front of my father. He always forgives me and forgives me ,and then even thinks that's was his own fault. Several weeks ago, I shouted on him emotionally, just because of my bad mood. He shed tears without any sound. I cannot help crying. I cry out my regret instead of apology. Maybe it looked strange; when I expressed my regret, I was still in a loud voice. And I hadn't the courage to say sorry for all my caprice to him.
I love him. His sadness sometimes made me weep in silence. It's not fair to him; I seldom shout on my mother since our relationship is just like friendship. But I am not patient enough to communicate with him because we have a generation gap. I don't know how to show my love. I have been searching a way for us for a long time.
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
21 May 09
Hi Nirmal, I feel very bad and get angry on my behaviour. I did this mistake and still feel sorry. When i cooled down i went and asked for forgiveness. and had never done it again. Now if am angry i will ask my mom to come latter
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
21 May 09
Yes, i do. It's something that bothers my conscience everytime i shout at my parents. Sometimes by impulse i would shout on them whenever they kind of annoy me. I know it's not right but sometimes anger is just uncontrollable. I'm a lot more patient now than before and that don't happen much to me anymore lately.
@Jenny8520 (78)
• China
21 May 09
yes, i really do.
when i shout to my parents, i feel guilt, which make me more upset.
they just want to share with us, they just want to care us, why i am so rude to them.
now, i begin to learn to behave properly, cause i know how kind our parents are.
@nirmalsaurabh (205)
• India
21 May 09
yes dear..parents always care for ur..and even dey do understand us for dis shouting and dnt say a word on our such a rude behavior...but i do feel bad wen i think if i wud have on their place..if my own child wud behave like dis..
