Will there be a time when you will said to yourself " I give up"
@charlenmendoza (922)
Philippines
May 22, 2009 7:29pm CST
Every single person wants to have someone in their life. Someone who will love us and take care and protect us. We always call it Mr Right. But what if after so many failed relationship you still didnt find your Mr Right. Will you tell yourself, i give up, i dont want to enter another relationship because you dont want to get hurt again. you decided to be single forever.
2 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
23 May 09
There have been times when I felt like giving up on trying to find Mr. Right. It was actually when I gave up trying that I found him. I have had so many failed relationships that I am happy that I found him. If this relationship fails I dont know what I will do.
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
23 May 09
as what lawana said, maybe we think of it all the time, that our relationship always fail so it became a cycle. try to think that this one, this relationship will be a perfect one and will be the successful one. Just enjoy the relationship, the NOW and not think of the past neither the future. Focus on the present.
@lawana_f (326)
• United States
23 May 09
There are worse things in life than being alone. Sometimes it is simply better to be alone than to make another bad decision. If you are thinking about it try finding a class on how to choose the right partner for you. (Check the abused shelters for access to this type of class). They are usually open to the public after you explain how many bad decissions you have made and they are sure you are not trying to get at one of their clients. I found this class to be well worth it even if I only went to a few of them.
There is something in us as humans that make us pick the same type of people over and over again unless we break the cycle. There are many self help books out there too.
It is not giving up if it is your choice.
@charlenmendoza (922)
• Philippines
23 May 09
Im not afraid of living alone or being single forever. But im not giving up on finding my Mr Right because i know someone out there is a guy for me. I know that it will be given to me in the right time.
i believe in what you said, when we always have failed relationship, we have to examine ourselves, maybe its us who have the problem. We have to look in the fast, maybe we have experiences in the fast that we thought its how it should be, until such time its a cycle to us. Im reading self help books to help me with myself.
thank you for posting and happy mylotting.
