How long did your latest argument with your bf/gf/husband/ wife lasted?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
May 23, 2009 4:57am CST
Three days ago I had a love argument with my fiancee. But it doesn't last a few hours and tried to fix it. Well she thought I forgot our monthly anniversary. The truth was I just want to surprise her and bring her out. Usually we don't really argue, but this time she left a letter on the table and telling me how she felt bad forgetting our monthly anniversary. She locked her self in our room, and wanted to be alone. I really ruin the door knob just to tell her I did not forget it, and she gave me a huge hug. I wanted to bring her out but she decided just to stay in our room and just buy food. Anyway how about you guys, does it last your argument just an hours or days? I just don't wanna see her feeling sad or bad with anything. I just love her very much! Anyway have a nice day to all of you!
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@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
24 May 09
i always try to fix any argument as soon as possible like for an an hour or after a night passed away. i certainly don't make argument with her but she is just too spoiled and a brat that will certainly make me go insane. well i already got used to it and her being a brat is what i love the most. anyhow, our last misunderstanding happened 6 months ago, it happened during midnight, she don't want to talk to me, i just said that i have something else to do, but she wants me to text her all night, but the thing is i am really busy and i told her that. but like what i've said the brat inside her rules out...."BRAT RULES" as what she always say to me...."MEET THE BRAT IN ME". then i gave her the favor, but she don't want to talk to me on the phone, doesn't send me a message back. i had always been the ever faithful partner to her, but that time, i stand with want i want. i don't want to spoil her that night and so i just done what i have been doing. then the next day, she was the one who texted me, and she said "SORRY FOR BEING SO CHILDISH"...
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 May 09
Hi rymebristol,well the last argument you had was kind a long time already hahaha! I like your respond no matter how brat she is one thing she could say sorry. With us if she doesn't wanna talk out she locks her self inside our room. Even I text her she wont reply so I just decided to ruin our door knob. Now she was askin me to fix it, cause I destroyed it! What women can really do to men! Anyway have a nice day to you!
• United States
23 May 09
It all depends on the argument I have with my husband. The shortest was I didn't speak to him for a week, the longest was I didn't speak to him or do anything for him for a month. Yup, cook your own dinner. :) (right there you can tell that it wasn't a small argument). Hey he deserved it. Little arguments, we have 3 kids, hardly ever go out together, and the two times in the past we had a sitter he went out with his friends and got drunk. I think I have the right to get mad as I am always the one with the kids. (Yes, I can hold a grudge for a very long time depending on how bad I hurt.)
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 May 09
Hi imajerseygirl, well usually what we argue is just petty. It could be fix right a way. I hate arguments, and I just don't like problems not settled immediately. I never hurt her, or do something stupid. I just love her very much! If ever I want it solve within just few minutes or just a day. I hate it if she doesn't say anything I rather see her tell me what is wrong. Have a nice day to you!
@angelsmummy (1696)
23 May 09
I hardly ever argue with my partner but when we do it normally just last half hour if that, we have an understanding where if we have issues with the other we will talk about it! We hate to argue although when we do we always make sure staright away!! =D
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 May 09
Hi angelsmummy, I think the same way, I can't concentrate when we do have problems or issues that is bothering my mind out. I want to settle it right there and there with her. But after we fix it, were much sweeter with each other. Anyway have a nice day to you!