what kind of relationship you have now?

United Arab Emirates
May 23, 2009 11:49am CST
I had different relationships from the past some are good, mostly are very bad. I experienced too many hatred, sacrifices, and even the fact that he can never be yours. Other woman is the worst relationship I had. But I don't really regret all those things that happened to me, in fact it gaves me strenght to hold on in every face of life. Now, i can say that I have my very new and stronger relationship now and would never take it forgranted.
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@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
24 May 09
hi cherrylicious, Just like you, I had also numerous bad relationship on my past.And from my past experiences, I learned a lot of things.I can say that those experiences that gave me learning became my foundation in building a new relationship which is more mature and responsible. I have a colorful and meaningful long distance relationship with my boyfriend.The ones we have is very complicated and really needs a serious communication since we are very far from each other.So, no matter how busy we are in our works, we make sure to it that we still talk even for few minutes. We not keep secrets from each other and we keep it to be honest to one another so as not to create misunderstandings or fights.When we have arguments, we try to talk about it and find a solution for our problems.Aside from that, we trust each other so much. I am an advocate of what Cupid said to Psyche that "love can never live without trust." So, if there is no trust, then our love or our relationship will not work at all.We love each other and I can say that we are best of friends. I am him and he is me. We are already one even though we are not yet getting married.But we have a plan of getting married someday and not be in a long distance again.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jun 09
That's great and I'm happy for you, really at the first time I heard that, I thought Long Distance Relationship is not working anymore based from my first boyfriend experienced. I hope that you'll be Forever.
23 May 09
Relationships r hard to keep sometimes. People just dont know some of the time how to keep their relationships from going sour. Is there a sure way I surely hope. There are some who have the perfect relationship or marriage and some it takes along time to find the one true person that fills their life to the fullest, I hope someday it will happen for me.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jun 09
Youre right, its just a matter of time and patience, let it be, as long as you enjoy with your friends or the people around you. You'll feel that you're complete, yes, but sometimes need a partner to be there and listen on all your triumphs.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
23 May 09
Right now I am in a good relationship. I am very happy with the man I am dating right now. I have had bad relationships in the past and it is refreshing to have a guy who treats me write and treats me with respect.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jun 09
Well thats all woman wants.
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
23 May 09
a complicated one, i don't know what would be the proper word to describe it. for me, i still feel that i am taken but the thing is my partner don't exist already. she passed away. probably i am single, literally speaking but i feel that i am still taken by her.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jun 09
The relationship she gave you was a perfect for you, but everything has a limit right, just be grateful that you know and have her in your life and past will set you free. She'll be happy too see you that you're happy and enjoying your new life.
• Philippines
24 May 09
i am in a good relationship i think.. well, im dating with an awesome, intelligent guy.. he's my first boyfriend in 18 years of my life and we've been together for 4 months now.. such a very young relationship i must say.. i am enjoying my company with him but there are times i felt so insignificant.. maybe because im a bit paranoid at times and kinda needy which i know is a bad thing.. i can say that i am happily in love and inspired at the moment but im open to any possibilities like breaking up with him one day if things wont turn out well for us along the way.. but i admit i love him and that im happy being with him.. its just like its better like this,no much expectations..
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
23 May 09
I am in a very strong relationship, happy marriage, one that means the world to me. Like you I do not regret my past relationships, after all it is those relationships that brought me to where I am today and have helped me to be the person I am now.
• United Arab Emirates
27 Jun 09
Experiences, bad or good. It will make you a better person.
@pitstryke (310)
• Philippines
24 May 09
i had failed relationships too..but what i can about my relationship with my gf now is quite good...better than the past...i've learned a lot from my past relationships so i am avoiding the things that could stop or crush what i have right now
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
24 May 09
Well right now i'm still single. I just broke up with my girlfriend last year. I'm not yet ready to commit because i would be engaging myself in another failed relationship. I'm just enjoying being single for now but i do miss loving someone. I miss the feeling of being inspired. I've been through a lot of failed relationships. I feel tired of girlfriends come and go. I'm looking for someone who i can be with for the rest of my life.
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
24 May 09
i dont have any relationship to anybody, though im dating, and do go out with casuals dates. i dont know whats happening with me, i dont like commitments. maybe im just very busy with what im doing right now,. and iam happy already of what i have now with my kids. LOL
• China
24 May 09
yes, i think your experience is very different from me, i only have a relationship whick starts from the end of 2007,and now the relationship is very good, and we will marry in the near future, i think different person has different atitudes towards relationship, and has different experiences.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
24 May 09
My relationship as of now is so good and quite fine. It is normal that there is a misunderstanding in our relationship but you have to settle right away before the new day. In a relation there are test to us both in order for us to be strong in our bonding .If you already live for 10 years already you are now past the trials in a family or relation you have. You can easily adjust your partner because you already who he is.