Do you agree that Marriages are fixed in haven?

@dhawanbm (3705)
India
May 24, 2009 2:11am CST
Its we humans who celebrate the already fixed marriages in haven, isnt it a reson to joy, that half the work is already done by the God and rest is to us to just celebrate the fixation over here on earth and then celebrate our most destined time "The coveted Honeymoon" as if someone is on the moon on marrying!
3 responses
• China
24 May 09
yes, i agree and believe it.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
24 May 09
oh thats wonderful sharon its agreed about the marriages as if gods will what do you say?
• India
24 May 09
i really don't believe that. i truely believe in destiny n think whatever happens to us is because of it. we make our own destiny. if we do good, we get good. if we do bad we get bad. simple.
@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
24 May 09
bhaskar if you believe in destiny then you must say everything that happens is predefined by the gods and we have to be by it anyways!
@lawana_f (327)
• United States
24 May 09
We were placed on this earth as humans and in that respect we have free will and we make mistakes. Marriage is a holy union between husband, wife and God. But we cannot just set back and expect God to do all of the work to make a good marriage. God helps those that help themselves, and we have to work to make a good marriage, a lasting marriage. Marriage is a gift that has to be taken care of and the honeymoon is the easy part. Then comes the everyday life challanges and trials that we all go through in this life in one form or another. Life is what you make it, yes celebrate what God has given you, but also what he has not given you and know that there will always be challanges for you in the future. If you do not take care of the gifts then you can loose the GIFT. Marriage is not just about the honeymoon, the honeymoon is the celebration of marriage, but marriage is not a constant honeymoon. "Play time" is not the answer to everything, or really the asnwer to any problem. So face life head on and praise God in everything, good, bad, happy and sad. It is all a part of life and marriage.