why i always feel others laugh at me

Hi,my dear friend, what I want to say is that you should have confidence in yourself and don not care too much about what other people will say. Just try to speak out your own opinions. It is natural that different people have different opinions about the same question. Try to communicate with your friends as much as possible. Good luck!

Hello, I assume that you mean chatting face to face (as opposed to online). This is a great first step to post on here. I glanced at some of your other postings; it seems that you get uncomfortable with several things that involve contact with others (relationships, talking, etc.). Do you have any close friends that you chat with often? Maybe, with her/him, you can gradually hang out with another person (all together), and eventually bigger groups, so you feel more comfortable, knowing people, and having them supportive around you.

Why do you care what they think about you? Your conversation is just as good as anyone else's. If they don't like you that is their loss, not yours. Get out and make some friends! Some people won't like you but a lot more will like you. Those that don't probably aren't worth knowing, anyway. Quit caring what others think of you!

Hello there fwangaa! I think you have to get used to being ignored sometimes--or even most times. You cannot prevent that in this world where there are too many busy people or else self-conceited people. The world is made up of all kinds. I, too was like that. I hated being ignored. I was scared of being rejected. but then, after being ignored for so many times, I got used to it. Until now, many people ignore me. Sometimes I talk to them and I seem like a ghost or the wind to them. They make me feel like I'm a nobody. Well, the bible says God loves nobodies. And He makes power perfect through weaklings and despised persons like us. Since I saw that truth, I never again got hurt or scared of being ignored by others. And I could easily forgive them. When it happens, I just thank God. You're blesses, fwangaa!

Sometimes it is hard to see it, but the best way to view chatting with others is about what YOU get out of it, and not your perception of what others think! Once you start trying that, I think you will feel more confident to continue discussions! Best of luck to you...