will you get married immediatly after you got divorced ?

@rocketsky (1013)
China
May 24, 2009 7:44am CST
all people may feel lonely after their divorce ,things are gonna be tough from certain points ,I always think about this problom myself ,I think I will get married quickly after I divorced so that I could forgot what happened to me before .maybe it is a better way to release myself .
4 responses
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
27 May 09
i will find one but not quickly to marrige with others. or i will just lonely with myself. i think it will not stable if you find someone and quickly have a marriage. i will wait a long time .
@sandymay48 (2030)
• Canada
24 May 09
Hi rocketsky...I think that all situations are different. Maybe there is someone whom a person is already close to, but couldnt get the divorce right away. But to get married just so you wont be lonely is a bad choice. You need to know first that you love that person and that you are compatible. Going through all the feelings that happen after an event, are all part of the healing process. LIfe is not a bed of roses, and we need to experience the good with the bad. Too many people take up with someone else when they are on the rebound from a divorce and often the other person, ends up getting hurt because he/she, wasnt really what you wanted.
• Malaysia
24 May 09
no..and this is not good actually..if you can get married immediately mean you are having a relationship with that person already before you divorce..and this is not good..
• United States
24 May 09
I guess this is going be a easy one to answer. Me and my Ex-husband had been seperated since 2003. He left me and our daughter and went off with another women. So I started dating this guy and now we have been together 4 and 1/2 years now. I got my divorce finally after 4 years of him running and not wanting to sign them. I got it last September. I am going to be getting married this October.