do you like your friends more successful than you ?

China
May 26, 2009 5:02am CST
i know that it is not nice to say i want to be better than my dear frienfs.i really like them and we are getting on well with each other.we share happiness and sorrow together,we support each other when we are in difficulties,but sometimes when my friends are more successful than me,i will be happy for her or him.but at the same time,i will be a little jealous of their success,the feeling is really strange and i think it does not make a good friend to be jealous ,but sometimes i just can not resist this kind of feeling.
3 responses
28 May 09
I had the same feeling before. I love my friend,but in some cases,I found that I will be jealous to her when she was more successful than me. We all know this kind of feeling is so terrible, but we can not stop this. What can we do, I think, is that just let it go. As we are just a so common guy,we have this feeling is so natural. We should congratulate friends when they are more successful than us, and translate the jealous to a power to work hark or study hark ,and try best to catch up with friends.
@rymebristol (1787)
• Philippines
26 May 09
i have no problem with people who had attained a certain level of success, i admire and respect their abilities. they had reach to the top because of hard work, perseverance and lots and lots of determination. i love people/friends//relatives and associates who are successful, i will surely learn something from them and i will hold unto that and use it on my way to success, higher than what they had reach. but i will always looked back to the people who were behind me from the very start.
• India
26 May 09
I thnink being successful is matter of luck noone can stop that if you or your friend become successful