in laws messy
By tbrown1227
@tbrown1227 (221)
United States
May 26, 2009 7:54am CST
my husband i love him to death and i love my in laws but i can't stand going to thier house, i'm not the neatest person in the world my house is a little clutter but by no means is it filthy. it doesn't have to be spotless for me but when we go to his moms house i'm terrified of it i get sick to my stomach, they have roaches and the floors are sticky so when you walk across them ur shoes stick to the floor, take of my shoes and walk barefoot no way. it like they never sweep, mop, vacuum or anything else, they live in the country and so of course they have field mice and you can see droppings on the floor.
how do you feel about this?
am i over reacting because, i do go i love my husband more than anything and i never want to hurt him. he feels kinda the same way he loves it that i keep our house as clean as i do, but its his mom and siblings
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@imajerseygirl (433)
• United States
26 May 09
I know that you clean your own home, but what about if you offer when you go over to help clean a little. I mean grab a broom, sweep the floor a little. I mean sometimes people don't realize, cause they are so adapted to it. My house is messy, but not dirty. I have 3 kids, and always cleaning to the point I am sick of it, but my floors are always cleaned. (Only like living with humans, not bugs. :)) I had a friend like that once to were I actually started cleaning her house for her, once she saw me start "tidying up" she started helping, and then finished it herself. As my husband says, start the fire under their butts.
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@tbrown1227 (221)
• United States
26 May 09
i have done that several several times we have been together for 3 years and i'm always doing dishes wiping, sweeping and vacuuming. i have 4 kids so i do it all day long everyday. i don't live with them bugs like you only humans for me. we used to live in the same town as her until we moved while in the same town i would spend the entire weekend over there cleaning, now i live 1 1/2 hrs. from her and it is just BAD.
@imajerseygirl (433)
• United States
26 May 09
I'm sorry to hear that even that doesn't motivate them or even send a clue to them that their house is dirty.
@ufmobilehz (36)
• China
27 May 09
it's important that keep the house clean, this has nothing about love,and everybody know that,support you!
