What was the longest moment that you both has no communication after a quarrel?
By mobhomeir
@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
May 27, 2009 2:56am CST
Family trouble could not be avoided between husbands and wives. I admit that happens to us almost every other day. A little problem would smoke up into a big trouble. Sometimes it would take a day or two before we go back into normal communication.
How about you guys is there a perfect companionship of a husband and wife?



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6 responses
@med889 (5940)
•
27 May 09
To be honest with you then the longest moment we had no communication after a quarel is 20 minutes and it happened last week, when we fought, he went outside in the yard whereas I stayed inside to do some households, after some time he came and talk to me about a little puppy we were searching for many days and finally got it, we then talked about the quarel and patch up quickly with kisses, cuddling and lot of reasonings.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
27 May 09
Sad to say this, of all the people here responding as of this moment nobody told me we have the same fate..it means of all the people responding this discussion our situation is the worst...thanks a lot, this could reckon me to do something not to put our companionship to risk...cheers
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
27 May 09
hello again!
i think we're not as good as others think. yes we do have good relationship but of course we also have misunderstandings! just like you, fights starts with things that are too little to fight for, things that i think sometimes are non sense but it causes a spark and ends up to be a fire! hehehe.
we are both quiet person, both of us don't talk much when we fight and maybe that's the reason why our "no communication" thing last for 2 -3 days the most. and maybe because sometimes we're just shy to approach each other.
i wish he knows that all i want when we fight is for him to say sorry and talk to me. that's all. but i guess he's not aware of that! hehhe. he chooses to be quiet and wait the situation to be cooler but he doesn't know that it just irritates me more!
and that's why fights sometimes lasts long! and people don't know that so better to be quiet! (shhhhhhhhhhhh!)
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
27 May 09
I thought our situation is the worst of all the people here responding. I am glad I found I am not alone because there you are with the same as our situation. Yes I know this is not good but I guess we have our own style of handling couple's arguments that sparks into how many days of "silence"...I envy of those people who can handle and patch up their troubles immediately...I think we'll find ways to solve this bad attitude...

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@danishcanadian (28954)
• Canada
28 May 09
My husband and I make sure that we don't go any amount of time without communicating, after a fight. We want to get things fixed and resolved, as soon as possible, so we calm down for a few minutes, and then talk it out, leaving our emotions behind. the longer a couple goes without talking, the longer the problem will take to solve.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
28 May 09
Yes, that's good for you. I know that is what suppose to be the best thing to do for the couple. It's not happening to us, I envy you. I admire your husband...keep it up...thanks for your share
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
30 May 09
this is an excellent question, I would say that two days is the longest I have gone without speaking to my significant other. I just cannot not communicate. I just get too lonesome. He has never stopped talking to me, it is always me who gets upset and stops talking.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
27 May 09
Hi mobhomeir, I think there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Problems come and go, it's how you both talk it out and handle the situation. But for me since the start of our relationship we seldom argue, if ever we don't run away not facing it together. It is still a matter of communication. It's not the problem that we discuss it's just to solve it as soon as possible. Sometimes it just takes a few minutes for me and my fiancee. Relationship you stick together if you want to make it last. Have a nice day to you!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
27 May 09
I appreciate you for that. As if we're not the same principle in handling arguments with our hubbies. I wish I could be like yours...thnks a lot
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
27 May 09
I envy on you. Congrats for having a hubby that's very good in handling your anger. Hope patience would always win....keep it up..

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