has your partner ever doubted your love for them?

United States
May 27, 2009 6:01am CST
Yes my boyfriend and I have a very rocky relationship at times, we fight a lot. But I have always thought that I have let him know that i love him no matter what. I have a hard time saying "I Love You" first, i can do "I Love You too" but my brain is just wired to where he has to say it first, and sometimes the day after a nasty and hurtful fight, its hard for me to say even that, its not that i dont feel it, i love him more than anything,its just that my emotions are so raw that the word love coming out of my mouth takes hesititation,,,,well since i hesitated to say the words my boyfriend gets hurt and i say "you know I love you" and his response "no i dont know that", it was an eye opener and a sad moment for me, but i am going to try in the future to make sure that he always knows no matter what.......have you ever had your partner doubt your love for them?
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• India
27 May 09
I dont think the above incident can be Labeled under Doubt. Its more a matter of some one being extra sensitive. When you fight then or when there is some argument with one whom you love,I dont think saying, I LOVE YOU, is the right moment and one should not be so insecured that he needs to hear I LOVE YOU to know that she is in love with him.
• Canada
27 May 09
Not in a million years, not even for a moment. My husband and I have been through some extremely tough situations, even before we were even married, but we managed to pull through. Let's just say there has never been a dull moment in our lives, and this fact was even worked into our wedding vows. LOL