how will i know if the girl like me?can u give my advice?pls comment
May 27, 2009 10:19am CST
i have a friend that is so attractive in my eyes.. she simple and she is still available..she has a beautiful eyes lips .. in my eyes shes beautiful I almost forgot that I felt in love with someone but i don't have the chance to talk to her in personal. when i try to offer her to go out and have a snack of dinner she refuses. but i don't lose my chances yet because she still single but not looking for a boyfriend, and she said that to me before that she is now still ready.. does it means that I am not the boy that shes dreaming for? sometimes i lose luck to get here.. iv waited long long time.. my felling to her is loyal but i cant sure it will last long because sometime we failed to wait and tired of waiting for the best shoot.. i was disappointed to myself because i stopped studying.. we are on the same school and I am older than here..at age of 20 stock in 1st year college. i was so afraid with my age is getting older.. please suggest something or advice me.. i like to be guided and i love to see your responds hope you can help me..happy mylotting all.. and have a nice day.
• United States
27 May 09
It sounds to me like it's not anything personally against you. Some people just don't want to be in a relationship, so if she's told you that she's not looking for a boyfriend right now it could mean that she would rather focus on her education than dating, and there are lots of people that don't want relationships to interfere with that. If that's the case, you just have to respect that decision, but that doesn't mean you have to give up. All you can do, really, is wait and see what happens. Maybe she'll come around, or maybe she'll find someone else? But let her know that you're interested and willing to wait until she wants to date someone. The worst thing you can do is to keep pressing the issue if she tells you no, though. Then she'll just likely get annoyed at you. People can change their minds, though. I had the biggest crush on my fiance in 9th and 10th grade, but every time anyone mentioned us dating to him he always said that he didn't want to ruin our friendship, or some excuse like that. So I gave up and dated someone else in 11th grade. When that didn't work out, I went back to liking my fiance and we did finally start dating at the beginning of 12th grade because me dating someone else had made him realize that he liked me and he was jealous. ^_^ Jealousy is NOT the answer in this case, though, I'm sure. I was just trying to let you know that sometimes it pays off to not give up. The jealousy in my situation was accidental, but it's never a good idea to try to win someone over through jealousy. Best of luck with your situation! You sound like a good guy and I hope it works out for you in the end.