Stay with your loved ones or Have freedom to do things that you like???

@mermaidivy (15394)
United States
May 28, 2009 9:13am CST
You could only choose one, which one would you choose? I personally think it is a very tough choice, what I'm experiencing is the first one, I get to stay with my loved ones but I cannot do anything that I like to do, right, it's ANYTHING, I'm not exaggerating, it's because the situation that I'm doesn't allow me to do ANYTHING... So what is your decision?
2 people like this
4 responses
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 May 09
i would move & soon. if u are old enough to be married u are old enough to have your own home & make ur on decisions. u will make some wrong ones but they will be yours. that's ridiculous that u are having to live like that. wouldn't work for me. i'm too independant!!
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
29 May 09
I'm sorry u are so unhappy. Hope things get better for u.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
28 May 09
1 person likes this
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
28 May 09
Hello mermaidivy, I think I will choose to stay with my loved ones. I need my husband and my son to be always by my side. They are my inspiration in life and they help me to go through the ups and downs in my life. Of course, I have to sacrifice and I am willing to give up my freedom, just to be with them.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
28 May 09
That was part of the things I sacrifice... because I wanted to be with him...
1 person likes this
• United States
28 May 09
I think I would begin to pursue some options. Start making future plans. IT may be okay and you can figure out ways to deal with it for a short time, but over time it will begin to really wear on you. You cannot stay healthy under prolonged stressful conditions. I hope you can work it out so that you can do some things you enjoy. It's a very important part of life I am finding out!
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
28 May 09
Thank you... I'm just very ynhappy right now thinking it...
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
30 May 09
Well I would chose to stay with my loved one and that's what I am currently doing. But he has to be caring and loving too, if I am doing all and he is ignoring me most of the times then I guess I'll better move on with my life and let him do whatever he wants to do with his time. :)