grilfriend or luxury?

Indonesia
May 29, 2009 4:30am CST
okay, my dilemma here. i have a business make my time using for it, but i have girlfriend and she request me to stop my business and give she my time,
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6 responses
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 May 09
Hi Tanajahdeh, As a girl, i can understand your girlfriend's feeling. She just want you to spend some times with her. If you can make a balance, i think you can still have your business and her. If not, it's time for your to make your decision. One hint for you, ask yourself, are you more afraid to be with her, are are you more afraid to lose her. Then you will know what to do. Good luck!
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• Indonesia
29 May 09
thank you, i very confused, i love her, but i need my business too, thank you for your sugestion
@chillpill90 (1936)
29 May 09
ok well wats more important to you her or your business ask yourself that. i would stop my business and just find a new job, then you still have money and she is happy.
• Indonesia
29 May 09
oh so i must sacrifice my business?
• Philippines
29 May 09
Its so impractical and unwise if you are going to obey your girlfriend's request to stop your business. What will you do for a living instead? My boyfriend is also a businessman and I didn't tell him anything like that. If your gf wants you to spend some time with her, you can manage your time so that you can be able to spend some time with her especially during weekends or you can both go to vacation together (if you can afford it) so that you can both relax and enjoy some time together. Closing your business is not the solution to your gf's request so better think again.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
29 May 09
If you give up your business you might be really sad if you and your girlfriend split up in a couple of years. A person doesn't change so your girlfriend should accept you as you are which includes your business. You need to give your girlfriend some but not all of your time. Good luck.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
30 Sep 09
Hey, No you should definitely have to sacrifice your business, but I have to admit, I think that you should somehow have to find more time for her. I think that if you would have no money, she also wouldn't be happy either. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
29 May 09
i think it is not luxury that you can call the life you are preparing, saving up for had you and your girlfriend would get married someday. maybe you grew quite mature and she needs some maturing to do. consider the circumstances of how you met and if it was under favorable circumstances then only a little adjustment on her part is needed. good luck!