Did the love marriage or arranged marriage is better in life ......?

@darkmoon (701)
India
May 29, 2009 9:00am CST
Which is one best in life love or arranged marriage ? My lover's age is same to me,but in my society love marriage and same age marriage is not commonly accepted one.Did any problem for same age marriage ?...... What is your opinion about this? I am waiting for the good answer ...thank you..
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3 responses
• United States
31 May 09
My culture doesn't practice arranged marriages. I understand thier are pros and cons of arranged marriages, but I personally couldn't imagine not being able to choose the person I fell in love with to marry. I guess it can turn out good or bad. You could end up loving the person and happy, or you could end up in a situation where you resent not being able to make your own decision, and maybe even mistreated. just follow your heart and you will make the decision that is right for you. I think it's important not to just make a decision that would make your family happy.
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@darkmoon (701)
• India
31 May 09
Thanks for the respond xoxcharityxox, You are wright,their is positive and negative part in every type of marriage, but the important thing is lived happy... happy mylotting
• India
29 May 09
Arranged marriage is better than love marriage... Happy mylotting
@darkmoon (701)
• India
29 May 09
Thanks mahesh for your respond
@Zhizho (1350)
• Indonesia
29 May 09
Hai Darkmoon.Arranged marriege was happen to me.And I find love there.Now,we are happy family.Before,I could not believe about love in arranged marriage.but belief in good make me accept my parent suggest.I belive that God more knows about the best thing for me.About same age marriage,it's depend your self.If you sure that your lover's could guide you and your children to happy life,why not?.But,maybe you have to know that same age tended to egoistic.Difficult to back down.Need to big patient.I see my sister's family.Well,if you and your lover's was prepared it,I believe,there is no problem.I hope the best for you. (sorry,my english not good).
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@darkmoon (701)
• India
29 May 09
Thanks for your great informations for me Zhizho, I and my lover wish to marriage with the support of our parents,I hope they will accept our wish... again than you for your respond