do you quarrel with you sis /bro when you are a child?

China
May 30, 2009 12:45am CST
when i was a child ,i often quarrel with my sister ,she just small one year old than i .we can quarrel everything ,just a very very little things .like if we are looking the tv ,we will quarrel with the channel of tv. when we have a lunch ,we will quarrel with the knife and the fork.that is we can quarrel with everything .but now ,when all of us is get up .we never quarrel again .and the relationship in us is good .we help eachother .and love eachother .do you have the same situation?
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@henahuda (158)
• Australia
30 May 09
hi yes we are three brother and sister and currently i am staying with my sister who is younger to me and my brother is away from us.me and my sister never had a fight with her maybe just twice of thrice we have had a arguement or fight with her.but with my brother i every day have a fight and then we donot speak to each other and after some time he comes and say sorry to me but again the other day we end up in a big fight and then same thing happens again.its like one day my brother fights with me and then one day with my younger sister.but now we are not with each other at this moment we realize how much we all love each other and actually we all miss this all a lot.
@agv0419 (3027)
• Philippines
30 May 09
Yes we always had fights with my sisters when I was younger even up to now. My second sibling we have 2 yrs. age gap, back then we always have fights on small things like toys and many things. When we are young we are different in what games we wants and what cartoons we wants. I think the worst fight that we had when we hitting each other because of small things. Now we don't fight physically but verbally.
@SmilyQin (179)
• China
31 May 09
Oh,good topic. Now i am out working ,and my sister live with my mother.I can only go home once a year,and i do miss those times when we were together,like what u say,we not only quarrel,bur also fighting,yes,those scenes are still clearly to me. After i went to another city,we never quarrel againg,sometimes i call her,and we talk happily.before we are too young to think about our relations,but now we do know that ,we are sisters,we are a family.
@John4Christ (1598)
• India
31 May 09
oh yes i have a elder sister and we used to fight so very much......but we used to love each other the same......when we are small it is a common sight to fight.....envy, jealousy etc are a common part.....like if our dad gets me something then she used to get upset that why not me......we used to fight over video games, over who's going to hold that remote control of the television, etc......but then it was really fun......i loved being a kid and i really miss my sister who is now married.......
@CodeKitt (27)
• United States
31 May 09
Haha, yeah. Me and my bro had our share of squabbles when we were young. But he's 6 yrs. older than me so most of the fights were because of me being bratty. XD Now, we still fight sometimes but it's not so much fighting as just having misunderstandings. We usually just give each other time and then we're good. So yeah, we have a much better relationship now that we're all grown up, haha.
• United States
30 May 09
I never had that issue with my sister. She is 12 years older then me though. When I was a kid everything was great. She was the best sister I could ever ask for. I was always included in everything with her and she was actually in some ways like having a second mom. She took me to all my sports compeitions (some were a few states away), she helped me with my homework, and she never made me feel like I was in the way. I think the age difference was a big factor here, but she has always been there for me and helped me through anything. Now she's the vice president of a college so we don't get to see eachother as much, but we still have a really good relationship.
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
30 May 09
hello there, well we are only 2 child in the family and i don't remember having quarrel with him. i think because of our age gap, i'm ten years older than him. so its me who always gives way to him and i feel like he's very precious to me. although on the first years of having him in the family makes me feel a little...just a little jealous of him coz after 10 years of being an only child, all of sudden all the attention i've got goes to him and i'm somehow put out of the picture...huh! but that's only my thinking... my parents are so patient to explain to me the situation and gives me comfort so that i don't feel that way. from then on up to now, i have very good relationship with my brother... have a nice day! :-)
@srganesh (6345)
• India
30 May 09
How can we grow without quarrels with our brothers and sisters?They are part of our relation.Sometimes out of envy and sometimes for competition,we quarrel with each other.And being grown up,we understand they are more lovable and understanding.So,we stop quarreling.But there are families where they continue quarrels till they die.