Lost ways of courting a woman

United States
May 31, 2009 6:50pm CST
I feel like I need to inform the men and women out there who are dating. I want to help anyone who is interested in being courted and those who are courting. In these days it seems like the men have forgotten how to properly court the woman they are pursuing. Am I right? It seems like they dont want to meet the Father and Mother anymore, why is that? They need to understand that the young ladies Father and Mother has put considerable time, money, love and emotions in to developing this young woman to find a suitable suitor. It is so important for the man to develop a relationship with the Father as well as the Mother, that is if the Father is in the home. On the flip side, the young lady should not sell herself short either. Make sure these young men are opening doors, pulling chairs out, being respectful of you. So my question is can the young of today do the right thing and court properly? If done in the right way I believe this will help cut down on divorce. There are many more aspects, but I believe this is a start. What do you think?
1 response
@macel19 (202)
• Philippines
1 Jun 09
That is the ideal courship. You describe how courship should work in the ideal scenario. It is really good from the start that you demand an ideal character of whom your dating with. But there are variations as well because some cultures dont see it the way you see things. Courtship is essential tool for building a successful relationship and for maintaining that relationship.It is a period if time during which person seeks the affection of another.Therefore, it is important that the people especially parents should be involved in this process.