Would you let the love of your life gone by, because you are married?

The love of my life, I met 8 years ago, the problem, we were both in relationships, and I was married. So we never admitted to each other our true feelings. We lost touch for a few years, and in that time, his relationship ended, and I got divorced. I was in another relationship for 3 years that just ended at the beginning of this year. And, not sure if it was fate, heavenly intervention, or what, but we reconnected. And we are not letting our second chance pass us by. We confessed how we had always felt for the other, and he proposed (which he said he should have done 6 years ago lol) and I accepted. We will be married in September. And we both agree, we are both lucky in that we are marrying our best friend, soulmate, fellow firefighter, but mostly the love of our life.

If ever I meet someone else who I fall in love with and I'm already committed to someone, then I'm gonna have to forget about the person cause I'm already married. If were really meant to be then things will find its way.

If that will happen to me, i will give way to the feelings i feel to the person. I will tell myself that i am already married, and what am i looking for. Early i accepted already the commitment i have with my husband and no matter what will happen i will remain on our marriage. What if later or years passed by that my husband is not for me, well there will be regrets but it is much better for me to regret than i will commit a mistake to my husband and in the relationship.

Clorissa my dear, I really don't think that sometimes you listen to the advice I give you. You ask all these questions and then forget the advice I give you. So I will tell you again. When you are looking for a nice young man to marry you need to find one with money so you do not have so many worrys. Also if he works abroad then he won't know that you are spending your time with the love of your life .who may not have had as much money. The love of your life will soon bore you but you will have a strong and rich marriage

Once married, I will stay devoted to one person, my husband for the rest of my life. That is unless he betray me first and I am not a forgiving person. I should cease contacting my love of my life once I tie the knot. I can't forget the feeling I have for him but that doesn't mean we must be together. Besides, if he love me, he should fight for me before I marry someone else (oh, I make it sound like in a movie or something~~~ but truly, that's how I feel)

I do not think I will get into this kind of situation when before I get married I will definitely make sure that I am inlove with the person. I truly believe that getting married should be to the person you truly cherish and would like to spend the rest of my life with. Not get married and see where we get to. Life is all about making choices, good ones that you will cherish for the rest of your life. I believe that God has someone for us and all we have to do is be patient and God will bring us together with that person in time.