is it a right dicision

Getting married is a big decision a person could make in life. You shouldn't jump into marriage just because you see happily married couples around you. At the same vein, you shouldn't be afraid when you see married people separating. I believe the decision to marry should be made when you are emotionally, spiritually and mentally ready for a lifetime commitment. Don't be swayed by what you see or hear. Ask yourself if you are prepared for it and trust that decision you make.

When I was a member of No Boyfriend Since Birth Club is used to feel the same. Whenever I see a happy couple I feel like I should find someone who will love me for who I am and someone I can depend on. Whenever I was invited by a former classmate of friends for their wedding I usually feel happy and jealous because I still don't have someone. And whenever I heard that one of my friends broke up with their boyfriend or having a divorce I feel sad and afraid of the what ifs. When I finally found the one and asked me to marry him, I forgot all about the things I used to think and feel whenever someone is getting married to filing a divorce. Now I often think of what I can do to make my man happier and contented because that is what he always do for me. He makes me feel that I am the most important person in the world and would always do anything just to make me happy. So having a happy married life and a lasting relationship will depend on the couples effort.

I think every people will find their answer when the time is right. Almost everybody finally will choose to get married, why? May be I must change the question, why not? What you feel is just a "bachelor syndrom" May be you still young and still find the answer about things in your life. If you are a good person you'll meet good person to, it is a circle of justice or in the China called Yin Yang, a balance. Marriage will not make you go worst, in reverse marriage will make you better, if you have weakness your couple will cover it for you, if you fall your couple will be the place to hang on. With marriage people get their balance, just choose it and don't be afraid.

it's all a big risk,IMHO.i mean,to me marriage is giving the liberty to another person to enter into your closest private zone...a place i'd rather have kept all to myself if i had my way.but peer and family pressures have pushed me into getting married and sadly i'm killing my bachelorette status next month. for all i know,it could be the beginning of a beautiful journey together.but it's still one big risk and one never knows what might come out of it.ask urself if u're emotionally and financially(never depend on a guy for finance...period)prepared for it.if everything says OK,go for it :-) anyway,life gets boring without a few daredevil acts...like marriage for instance :-P

Getting married is the toughest decision to make. You have to be stable financially, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. It is not enough reason to get marry just because most of your friends are and your still single. Plus, wedding is a ceremony that solemnize your partnership in front of the people and front of God. That is why its holy. If there is no marriage, what differ us from the animals?

Life is so confusing that sometimes may lead us to wrong decisions. Getting married, is another thing that we should consider. As we all know that married is a sacrament which is instituted by Christ himself. If you are catholic, and devoted person then you'll end up marrying someone but what scary here is that the person we met prior to marriage is not anymore the person you'll be living with. Don't we know that knowing other person would even takes U a lifetime to do that. With this, a couple who plan in getting married one day, should have to consider that we're all a unique individual, problem is always there but have to remember the marriage vow......... Me, was married b4 (now divoced) but still never give up hoping one day may still find the right guy for me.

Well this entirely depends on you.You can make both your life and your wife's life a dream place or simply a living hell.