Relationship trust problems(help me)

June 2, 2009 8:24pm CST
Okay so I just got with a new guy.So far he hasn't really done anything to trigger me to think he is cheating,but I have MAJOR trust issues.He is really good with his words and it is like he knows exactly what to say and that makes me think that he doesn't mean it.I know all of this sounds so crazy but I really can't help it.I have been stabbed in the back and lied to so many times,that I always have my guard up.I know that there is a lot of girls out there like me and I would love to hear from you.I don't want to feel alone.Also,if there is any HONEST guys out there that can give me HONEST male perspective I would LOVE to hear from you as well.
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@denisewy (90)
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
I know how you feel and honestly, we're wrong. yeah it's true that it's just normal for us to not trust people eß if we were stabbed many times but they still deserve our trust. Maybe he's juz the kind of person who's more good in talking, I mean maybe he can't really show it but he's saying those words to make up for it. If you want, you can personally tell him how you feel. Be honest to him and he might understand it.