is having a religion make us a better person?

@ckyera (17332)
Philippines
June 2, 2009 9:59pm CST
i just come to think of it. in my life i can say that my religion makes me a better person, because i think that it really helps me in my values formation... it really has a big contribution in my life, on who i am now, on how i treat other people, on how i live my life...and everything... in your life, do you think your religion makes you a better person and have big influence on how you live your life now? thanks and have a nice day! :-)
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@John4Christ (1597)
• India
3 Jul 09
Well it depends from person to person, if you ask me I would say it has definitely made me into a better person......all the while I was away from god and never knew what plans he had for me or what he wanted me to do.......but then when i am with him, i feel a sense of security and assurance that he will lead me to the perfect life possible, he does teach us ethics if we read the bible.......if we just follow the bible, we can be not only better persons but the best person possible.....
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@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
oh John i am happy for you that you find God in your life and you feel good and secured with him...which what i also feel in my life... religion affects the lives of many people and its result really depends from person to person...it can make a person better or worst...just depend on how the person uses it and how he practice his religion... if we just follow the bible, we can be not only better persons but the best person possible..... ...and we must follow it by heart and should reflect in our works...if not we will just be as hypocrite as the others... thanks john for sharing...
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
3 Jul 09
I don't think that having a religion makes someone a better person at all, I believe that religions control people and by following religious guidelines people are giving up some of their reasoning power by blindly acceepting a creed. I think that if people follow their own moral guidelines that makes them a better person wheras religion tends to impose guidelines onto followers which are accepted without any real thought. Lots of religions are followed blindly and turn people into bigots and intolerant people. Also religion is used by many states to provoke its peoples into wars which are really nothing about religion but invariably about money. And history shows religious persecutions which are nothing more than hatred and trying to impose one set of beliefs onto another.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
hi thea...i respect your opinion regarding this matter... yes you are right, some people just uses religion for their own sake... but usually, religions are teaching good things for its member to be a better person and really influence their members...what is just wrong, are the people inside the religion...they doing things that are against on what they are teaching...they just use religion for their own benefits and forget the real meaning of religion... so i think religions like this are not the true religion that is written in the bible...(ooops, i mention the bible coz i am a believer of the teachings in the bible...) i agree with you that in history there are really so many cruelties done in the name of religions... thanks for sharing...
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
5 Jun 09
I think that for some ppl yes being religious or spiritual CAN and DOES make them better ppl but that certainly doesnt apply to ALL ppl who are or claim to be religious or spiritual by any means....In MY life...being spiritual has enhanced me on so many levels which of course has made me a better person BUT thats me..
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
yes i agree with you... it depends on the person...but we can't really deny the fact that religion somehow do affect the being and spirituality of a person... but not all that claims to be religious person are better person...for some are just hypocrite! thanks!
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
12 Jun 09
Sad to say I don't think religion makes anyone a better person. Look at the white supremacist skin heads, they are very religious and kill in the name of God. Look at the terrorist on 9/11, they were very religious men, look at what they did in the name of Allah. Look at the KKK and all the unspeakable acts they did to African Americans in the name of God. Lone people, groups of people and organizations kill in the name of a higher authority. People are always doing repulsive things in the name of Jesus. Which in turn casts a cloud over the real Christians in the world. What the terrorists did cast a cloud over good Muslim people. It all falls under the title 'Religion' and sadly it influences the opinion of other culture. No, I don't think religion does anything for anyone. I think the word 'religion' is just a title. A word that we hang anything under that has to do with a higher, unseen power, whether it be God, Allah, Budda and all the rest. I can't speak for anyone but myself, I think knowing and having a relationship with God through Christ and following His teachings has made me a better person.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
thanks susan... yes you are right that having a good relationship with God and following His teachings will make us a better person... those people who do such cruelties in the name of their religion, didn't even realize that what they are doing is wrong...they think that it is right for they are doing those for their faith...thus they give religion a bad name...
@achinthya (1216)
• India
3 Jun 09
Religion influence is obviously there in everyones life, so if not the better person it holds us to certain extent,because of religion only we controls ourselves from doing certain evil doings though we do we try to control it..Love your enemy as you love thyself. So sometimes we remember this words and forgive our enemies no matter what they do to us though unforgettable.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
hello achinthya... i agree that religion really influence the life of people who believes in it...and if a person just follow the teachings in their religion...i think somehow they can be a better person... thanks! :-)
@Sky889 (11)
• China
3 Jun 09
I don't think my religion makes me a better person bcause I am a bad egg, but it really influence our live, for example the muslem Mohammedanism's believer the craze to detonate theirself.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
yes i agree..religion itself didn't make a person a better person, but it influence the person really...it may influence them to be better or the other way around... thanks!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
3 Jun 09
No definitely not, it is what you do through your life that makes you a good or bad person...I know a lot of people who class themselves as very religious but I can assure you they are not good people, far from it...it is all within...
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
hello, yes maybe it also depends on the person and how they live their lives...but don't you think that sometimes our religion do influence our lives?