Deep thinker or shallow thinker???

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This is something that I wrack my brains thinking about. I know that I read way too deeply into things, wonder if people have ulterior motives, see truth behind what people have said jokingly. I am a sensitive person but not a wet rag if that makes sense. My hubby is an extreme version of me, he imagines a situation escalating into a full scale row and argues it out in his head before the situation has even arisen. In my experience, people say stuff without putting any thought into it (shallow thinkers) and the deep thinkers are "easily offended or sensitive" to what they say. The deep thinkers accuse the shallow thinkers of being nasty horrible people and the deep thinkers in return are told to get a grip. In reality I am coming to realise that some people don't think about what comes out of their gobs but ultimately that is just who they are. You have to almost sympathise with them for not having the mental capacity to think properly. An example I would use is that my Dad said not too long ago about a lad who he saw who had tattoos on each arm and how he looked a complete tosser. This was sat at the dinner table with my mum, me my hubby my sister her hubby. Me, my sister, and our hubby's all have tattoo's. We're not sure if our parents know or not that we have them but instantly felt like he might as well have said we were all tossers, and my hubby was really put out. I know its not just me, so anyone else out there?