Make a decision
By 3cardmonte
@3cardmonte (5098)
June 3, 2009 9:31am CST
Can you make a decision? women are said to be indicisive and change their minds all the time, but not this woman. I used to be, I could never make my mind up about anything! But no more, I make sh!t decisions, ill advised decisions, immature decisions, but at leat I make a decision. I think if I make the wrong decision and everything goes t!ts up, then thats just stiff cheddar, I made the decision and I have to deal with the consequences of my actions.
Are you decisive? Are you sure?
4 responses
@derlilaStern (1756)
• United States
3 Jun 09
I am a decisive person for important things. There are things that dont matter that I sometimes have a hard time making a decision on - like what we wanted for dinner last night!
I try to avoid making ill advised decisions and immature decisions. I have learned (the hard way!) that it is much easier to take the time to research a decision or ask for advice.
I think that some people think you are indecisive if you cant make quick decisions all of the time. I think that is ridiculous! As long as you go through your process and make a decision, then your arent indecisive!
@derlilaStern (1756)
• United States
3 Jun 09
I disagree. Sometimes you find out information after you have made a decision. That information is important and makes you realize you need to change something. I think it is stupid to stick stubbornly with your original decision in that case!
@3cardmonte (5098)
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3 Jun 09
yes, but there isn't always the opportunity to keep changing your mind, actions have consequences and you have to deal with them.
@derlilaStern (1756)
• United States
3 Jun 09
I agree completely. But in that situation, you cant be indecisive! You arent given the opportunity!
There are times when I wish that wasnt the case though. Sometimes those consequences really suck! 
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
3 Jun 09
I hate that stereotype about women! 
I have always been decisive...although there have been many times when it's taken me awhile to come to a decision, I don't often change my mind afterwards and I've lived with the consequences of some boneheaded ones during my lifetime. No one is going to make the best or the right choice every time so you do your best and push on.
I have always been decisive...although there have been many times when it's taken me awhile to come to a decision, I don't often change my mind afterwards and I've lived with the consequences of some boneheaded ones during my lifetime. No one is going to make the best or the right choice every time so you do your best and push on.@3cardmonte (5098)
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3 Jun 09
thats true, you can't get it right all the time, well I certainly can't!
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
When it comes to decision, i am not a kind of person that will decide right away. I need to think before i will decide something, and once i decide it is final and i never change it. When i am in the situation that i have to decide quickly i tend to decide rationally without putting up any emotions or feeling. What comes on my mind on that time, i will just quickly say it without thinking it much before saying it.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
30 Sep 09
Hey,
Yes most of the time I can actually make quite important decisions, but for some reason it just takes a fair while for me to actually make a decision. Based on how important the decision is actually to be made. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
