Why some people are so rude ??

United States
June 3, 2009 10:31am CST
IS there an psychological explanation ..of their behavior..
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@gicolet (1702)
• United States
3 Jun 09
hi lita! some people are rude because they don't put themselves in other's shoes or they just simply don't care. They can also become rude unknowingly...like if they're having a bad day and they take it on you. This type of rudeness usually ends up in apology but if they don't apologize to you then go ahead and cuss them! lol cheer up! have a nice day :)
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@dhawanbm (3705)
• India
3 Jun 09
hi lita its their personality like that of a negative character and they dont like anything and dislike others when they see them laughing and smiling they just cant stand that! Its ego also which is the main problem!
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• Philippines
3 Jun 09
There are many factors attributed to one's behavior. A person maybe rude either because he was not raised up and trained with discipline or maybe because his mind is just slow that's why he doesn't know how to react ethically.. Or maybe because it is his defense mechanism.. That's why these people should learn their lesson and for them to know it you have to be honest towards them.. or sometimes they have to learn it the hard way by experiencing karma..
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
3 Jun 09
Some psychological conditions can make a person behave with anger and rudeness, and some people are stressed and don't reaize how they come across to others. I do believe that some people are just plain mean-spirited, though, with no logical explanation for rudeness. It's a tough world, and we should treat each other with kindness and respect every chance we get. Happy day to you... Karen
• Philippines
3 Jun 09
Hello there. Some people are rude to others because of different reasons. Sometimes it is because of anger, bitterness or a bad feeling towards another that they can only manifest it through being rude to others. Sometimes it is just their habit, they are not aware of what they are doing to others because they have been used to it. Sometimes it is their defense mechanisms against something. Whatever the reason is, they should consider other people's feelings too because if it happens the other way around, they would feel bad too.
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