Dont you think Adopted children are lesser cared for besides natrual children?

@dhawanbm (3705)
India
June 3, 2009 12:02pm CST
Is it nature to love your own born child much more than an adopted one. Be it you begged for that child from a charity, later you have had your own, but what is the cheif reason for this neglect and shunning of an innocent child, who never had the chance of meeting his/her natrual parents!
3 responses
• United States
7 Jun 09
No, I think parent's who adopt honestly put more time and care into making the decision to bring a child into thier home then a pregnancy. I know people that have adopted and thier children are loved as much if not more then natural children. It takes a loving and kind person to raise and love a child that came from someone else and when you adopt you are prepared for the situation. Foster care is a different story. Unfortunately, a lot of people do that for the money and the kids end up in harms way neglected or abused. It's really sad what they have to go through.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
4 Jun 09
I know adoptive parents and the child or children they adopted are just like their own. I didn't give birth to my pets but they are much loved family members. The biological parent might have neglected or mistreated their child but the adoptive parent would have given love and support to make to child happy. They create a stable and caring environment which is safe. One of my friends is adopted and she knows her biological mother was cruel to her. Therefore she regards her adopters as her real parents.
@emilie2300 (1882)
• United States
3 Jun 09
No I dont belive adopted children are lesser cared for. I had put my son up for adoption 11 years ago he will be 12 in december and he is very well cared for he is happy. They also adopted a girl from newyork and they are two beautiful children and very well taken care of. It may depend on who you go through and proceders you take. I went through agency I knew and you got to pick the charactristics of the family. I am glad he is in a good place because I know I couldnt do it I have two girls both born in 1996 in january an febuary they are 11 months apart. now they are 12 and 13. we get to send pictures and letters to my son and get to see pictures of him and his sister.