he love me or not?

@rich_yu (163)
Israel
June 3, 2009 2:28pm CST
i have a present bf now and he always tell me he love me but theres a day he dont even call me or answer my calls..everytime we meet he dont give me kiss..he dont give me gift even...he dont do things that will surprice me..its really sucks...but bcause i love him i just understand everthing in the name of love..but if you what do you think he love me or not?
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@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
4 Jun 09
No, I myself and not a flirt and i don't like it at all. I hate people who flirt and I think they look cheap. Flirting with someone other than your husband/wife is also prohibited in my religion so that's another reason for not liking it and staying away from it.
@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
4 Jun 09
I am so sorry I typed another reply in your topic. Apologies.
• Indonesia
4 Jun 09
Sorry to say, but I think he doesn't love you anymore. Yes, truth is always bitter, but you have to accept it whether you like it or not. Someone who really loves you will leave even his meeting with the president to at least send you sms to say hi or ask how you doing.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
5 Jun 09
thans to your comment and the true is i talk to him and make a cool off to know what we trully feel to each other.
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
I don't think he loves you at all. I'm sorry. It's only words, he has to let you know that in action. I'd rather be alone than be in your situation. You can find someone better. Let it go.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
5 Jun 09
thanks to your comment my friend yes your rigth its better to let it go than to have dougt to him and i started not to be happy..so lastnigth to tell him that wi should be cool off so we will know what its better for as.
• United States
3 Jun 09
I don't know how old you are, but I have to say..if you don't know if he loves you than I am not sure that you love him. If you cannot trust what he says, or his words and actions don't jive, then you have to wonder if you love each other. You can be in "lust" and not in love with someone. There's nothing wrong with that..just be honest with yourself and move on. Love doesn't happen overnight either. If you just met him then maybe he feels a little pushed and only says it to make you feel better.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
5 Jun 09
thank you..thats why i started move in on in my own..
• United States
3 Jun 09
I don't think he loves you that much..How long have you guys been together?
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
5 Jun 09
we are going to 3years in june 12 but even we are in long realitionship still im not sure about him,,but last nigth i ask him for ask to give space to be cool off to know what we trully feel from each other.thanks
• United States
3 Jun 09
He may love you, the question is....was it one day that he blew you off? or is it all the time. He may be getting tired of you or frustrated with you. Sounds like a serious relationship discussion is needed. If he won't talk, then find a man that will!!! they're out there. somewhere.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
5 Jun 09
thanks for your comment friend yes i realize that all the time now we are in cool off and i believe it will go in break up...thats better that i have dougth on him.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
3 Jun 09
Hi, so he don t call you, he don t answer to yours calls, he don t kiss you, he don t make surprises for you, he don t give you gifts....but he tell you that he love you!! Nice, and he is really your lover? You understand all in the name of your love. Du you think that he love you? to this question you must answer, you can feel if he love you or not. If i come now, and say that he don t love you, i can make a mistake, because just you can judge. After i red all what you say about him, i am sure 100% that he don t love you, but i don t know him, i don t know if he make all this with other woman or not...maybe is his style to show love(but i have dubt), maybe just want to make you to love him more, because man think that if they are much colder, make a woman be disperate, make be crazy about him. If i say that he love you, i can be wrong, if i ll tell you don t love you, can be a mistake too...so, you know better to find this answers. But for sure he don t respect you, this is sure.
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
5 Jun 09
thank you to yuor honesty comment and i appreciate everything you say..even me i have douth to him and let me tell you this lastnigth i ask him for ask to cool off so that i cant be sure what we feel to each other...and hope it will work..